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writes:my husband and i have been divorced for 5 years,he remarried 2 years ago and seems quite happy. we don't really speak but then again we don't see each other.my problem is i've fallen in love with his brother! we've always been close but never had feelings like this.we got together about 7 months ago and found that we got on really well and it developed from there, he feels the same way about me but can't cope with the fact that i am his ex sister in law! so we've decided to cool off! i miss him so much and he misses me. my ex knows nothing so we had to sneak around which wasn't healthy. i have 3 grown up children who know and think we are great together so do my friends and family.i'd like to know what to do next? do i stay and fight or try to move on? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): As we all know life is too short....
We have to enjoy each minute of it!Because it's so valuable!
So by the time your ex lives with his new wife and made his life he shouldn't have a problem.Also if your children are ok with it all you have to do is to move on!
I won't say,it'll be a little akward everytime you meet but you'll get used to it.
So get your chance and live the happiness as he does.
It's not a mistake but just the need to be with someone who really loves and cares about you...!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): i think that if your husband is happy with this other women then it is your right to be happy with whom ever you falll in love with, yes it may be a little awkward at thanksgiving dinner but you say you do not often see eachother than their should be no real problem, but i would tell them so there is no big suprise if you happen to run into each other!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply, i wish it was that simple. We know this would solve our problem but he can't cope with the fact that his brother won't speak to him when he finds out, this would crush him because they are very close!
I've decided to give him space to get his head around it all, it's killing me but it's all i can do.
I'm hoping he'll make the decision to tell his brother and we can have a future.
Thanks again.
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