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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still ...

My boyfriend's dad is creating problems in our relationship and shows no signs of moving out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriends and I have been together 3 years in July. We got a house together almost 2 years ago and I love him very much BUT his dad moved in with us when he started going through a divorce almost a year ago. At first he refused- said he ...

I don't want my dad to die, he's all I have!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - hey everyone, i just want to tell you all my life story cuz my friends don't get me. they're not mature enough to understand what i'm going through. ok im from africa, i came to america 2 and a half years ago, i live with my dad, i though...

I just don't know what to think anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - Ok I had a child 3 years ago. Things didn't work out with his mother but shortly after we split up I fell madly in love with her cousin. Which is also my sons cousin. We have spent the last two years together and everything has been amazing. But we ...

My daughter hates me. I need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hi. I have an 11 year old daughter who absolutely despises me the moment. I realise hormones come into play but she contantly disrespecting me and her brother. My husband and i have been seperated for a few years and i am in another relationship of ...

How do you tell your boyfriend you can't see him as being the father of your children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - How do you tell your boyfriend that you don't see him ever being the father you'd want your child or children to have and that's the real reason you don't want children? And where do you go from there? Stay but remain childless or have children bu...

What's the best way to deal with this pressure from my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I'm so confused and frankly I feel bad. A couple days back I went out to dinner with my boss(19 I'm 17) as friends and strictly that. I then posted about it on Facebook Well my sister read this and when she came over she kept pestering me about...

Any advice on how to help my daughter who is struggling to conceive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - please can anyone give me any advice of how I can help my daughter. She has been with her partner for 3 years and they have been trying for a baby for 1 year now, without success, her partner has had a semen test and it showed he had high velocity ...

At what age can your child play alone at the park?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - How old do u think ur kid should be to play at the park alone with other kids if u live 6 house dwon from the park?...

My family will not be happy that I am dating a man from another race

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4620 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - My friend recently introduced her colleague to me and to my surprise we actually hit off quite well. We've grown very fond of each other but since we both just broke up earlier this year we're taking things slow and getting to know the other party ...

I can't get out of this affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I need help. I am a maried woman and mother of 2 and had an affair with a man i met on the internet. About 6 months after the affair started my husband found out and i asked him to leave the house because at the time i thought i was in love ...

Is something going on between my B/f and his second cousin? What did those text messages mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I’d like some input. I, begrudgingly, checked my boyfriend’s phone back in October because I had the strange feeling I couldn’t trust him. I found some text messages he had sent to his second cousin, but they were so obscure that I couldn’t tell for ...

What are the biggest problems that most people have to deal with in a lifetime?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - What are the biggest problems what most people have to deal with in a lifetime? In my family we have so much problems , that it is hard for me to see, if everybody got problems like that ,or it is out of the ordinary to have them,like that . ...

I've gotten back with my ex, my parents don't know and they hate her. Do I tell them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - I recently recieved an e-mail from my ex girlfriend saying she loves me and wants to get back together, we hadnt seen each other in two years and she has a four month old girl. I went to see her at the weekend and lied to my parents telling them ...

I'm afraid I'll be infertile by the time its right to get married and have kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I turned 30 and have been feeling very worried about it. I have a great boyfriend and we have plans to get married but we are having some financial difficulties and cannot right now. He knows I want kids and wants them too but we dont have the ...

Battling with blending families

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi all, I wonder if anyone could shed some light on a matter really bugging me regarding my fiance. Basically in a nut shell - we met when both of our previous marriages were pending divorce. My ex had run off with my best friend leaving me with a ...

Best way to tell my parents I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - so im 19 and am almost 7 weeks pregnant. i haven't told my parents yet and im just looking for some advise on how to tell them and what i should say, and also how to ask my mother to stop smoking since i do still live at home, therefore being ...

I'm worried about my depressed brother. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - My brother is 19 and dropped out of his coarse. He has been looking for work, but in this economy it isn't easy. He isn't sure what he wants to do. Also his best friend committed suicide recently. It was a shock to everyone, including him. My broth...

Is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (?) - Is it wrong for girls to ask guys out? The reason why is because...well you know the deal Overprotective old school parents They always tell me about how guys mess all over you when you flirt with them and stuff and that it isn't Ladylike to ...

My family is a classic case of undiagnosed mental illness and I am stuck in this extremely unhappy situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do, Im sure my husband has ,some kind of mental problem, but he won't see a therapist . Our sons also have some genetically inherited issues, what I think it might be bipolar depression,. But I can't diagnose him, as Im not a ...

My teenage sister has a crush on my male friend, how can I stop her getting hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - i think my little sister has a crush on my best freind hes 20 as im i and shes 16 well 17 in 3 weeks. she has always been mega shy and never had a bf and hasnt even done anythink at all with a boy. ressenlty she has been cuddling up to him when w...

How can I make my parents and grandpa see that I need to have my phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - My parents just took my cell phone. Its spring break! I cant talk to any of my firends. Im going to my grandpas house tomorrow. He says I dont spend enough time with him when im there. None of my friends live near by, he dosnt have internet, and no ...

I'm in love with my best friends little sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - So I am in a sticky situation ... Here's the story . I love my best rinds little sister she is 17 she is incredible mature for her age she graduated high-school when she was 15 and studied in Spain for a year. She is smart , funny and charming young ...

Do I tell my brother in law that his wife wasn't a virgin when they married?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - I just found out something and I'm not sure if I should keep to myself. My wife is the youngest of 3 daughters. Her next oldest sister just filed for divorce and is already dating and sleeping with men even though her divorce isn't final. My ...

I think we're 3 or 4th cousins, should we just date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - Okay, I've met a female that I find to be heaven sent and she has made it evident that she feels the same way about me. The problem is that we both have recently discovered that we have some kin in common. Apparently her Grandfather is my ...

My parents have a low opinion of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - I'm feeling hurt to come to the realize that my parents have a low opinion of me. Growing up I had low selth esteem and no confidence but now I have bags of confidence and a good opinion of myself. I'm truly turning my life around for the b...

Mix up in plans! What do I tell my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - So confused, I have two little sisters one lives with me and my mum and one lives with my dad the other side of town, my boyfriends parents kept asking when I was going to bring them so I asked my dad to bring my sister so I could take her then I ...

All the signs say he loves me but still I am scared he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Hello there, I've been with my boyfriend for a year almost (like in two weeks we've been together a full 12 months) and I am smitten with him. When things are good they are 'perfect', he adores me, buys me everything, spends time with me, loves me...

He will kiss me on a Monday through to Friday but never on a weekend when its my day of rest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - i love my boyfriend very much, but i dont understand something he does. we hang out every day, and everything goes well, but on my days off (weekends) he goes and does other things, for instance tonight he is at his inlaws. i did work today for the ...

I was tired of being his mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of nine months, I was tired of being his mother. I did everything for that kid, and he appreciated none of it. I wasn't happy at all in the relationship. I was belittled and treated wrongly. I paid ...

Thankyou Kyle 007

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I wrote an article about my son being brainwashed; I would like to write and thank Kyle007 for his lovely advice. I did not know how to personally write to him and let him know how his advice helped, here it is: Dear Kyle, I played the t...

Keeping in touch via facebook

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I wonder what people would be doing to get close to their friends and loved ones if they didn't have facebook. Would they notice them as much as they do now? It makes me curious to know how you kept in touch before facebook....

Dad is being pathetic because I don't have a boyfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Every time I see my dad, the first thing he asks is if any guys are chasing me. He thinks I need a boyfriend. I'm a Sophomore in college and haven't had one since my Junior year of high school. I'm fine with not having a boyfriend, though it would ...

35 years late he insinuates himself into facebook conversations with emotional references to the past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - my first boyfriend went away to college said we should date and sleep with others while he was away said we should start doing this before he left he did not take me to his prom I found out later that he even slept with my best friend he came back ...

I wanted to extend an olive branch but was confronted with the truth instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - What are the chances of a relationship ever working out for the long term if the person is an alcoholic and after breaking off a long term relationship continues to become seriously involved with one woman after another. My ex left me after 7 ...

The family hate him, but I am falling in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - Hello, i am in love with my bestfriend. He is 19 years old like me and we have known each other for 17 years. He lives pretty much two houses away. Our friendship has had its ups and downs. There was a point in time when we didnt talk to each other ...

How do I know if her emotional affair got physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - I think I am ready for a divorce. It has been 15 months since I found about my wife's affair. She was having an affair with my little cousin brother/best friend. He is married also with one child. We have three children, and have been married ...

Single, old and broke -- what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I am starting to feel like a bad person. Basically I am 31 and broke. I have no money. I work and have a job, but I have only been in it 2 months. I earn an ok salary, not great. mid £20's a year, which in London at my age is not great, but a...

Should I go to her baby shower?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - So my brothers ex girlfiend is pregnant. Me and her have been friends since high school we stopped talking for a while when I went to college but when I came back we just picked up where we left off. Now ive lost a best friend because of her b/c she ...

I think my son has been brainwashed against me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I have teenager, his dad and I split up when he was 18 months old, he left me for a younger model (he had a baby with and left her, but saw her child), I was his second wife as he was divorced when I met him, he has 2 children from his first wife, ...

I think my son stole money from me, how do I approach him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I noticed money being missing, two £50 notes were missing. I live alone with my 18 year old son. today, I found a receipt for Tesco and it says £50 was paid, this was in my son's room. How do I approach him? Do I set a trap again or ignore...

I'm attracted to my uncle who was adopted by my grandparents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I'm 18 years old. My mother was American (well of irish heritage) and she married my father in 1990. He was born in Mexico. He is full blood Mexican. My grandparents, my uncles, aunts, and all that also live in Mexico. I've lived in the U.S. my ...

My parents helped my brother financially in college but not me. Should I ask for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - This is a difficult issue for me, that makes me feel angry, and bitter, and I am ashamed that I feel this way because it is not nice to feel like this. I just want to know how to deal with this. This a long story so please bear with me, it needs all ...

I feel torn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - I'm writing as i am not sure how my married friend sees our friendship. We've been friends for 5 years and we try to have a chat each week. If we cannot make it, we text each other. Sometimes he's a little flirty (never sexual), and sometimes, if i ...

Where do I go to find Mr Right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - I've been single for a year now and I'm ready to start dating again but I don't know where to began looking for a date or dates. I tried internet dating where I met my most recent ex boyfriend who happens to be the father of my child and even dated ...

Caught mid kiss, now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - I went away recently to visit some family, my nans brother and his step daughter / her husband. We are all very good friends and have met several times before this visit. However this time was different, it started the same as always, meet up as I ...

At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still s...

No mum, dad and the kids for this guy, he wants the single life and sex with me on the side!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - Why didn't he commit to me and kids? My ex and I have 2 young children together.we.recently broke up in January. We had only just began living together as a family as he had lived with his mum prior to this, she passed away and left him her home. He ...

For 20 years he has tried to take over all my friendships and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - My husband tries to take over all my friendships with friends and family he acts overly nice and feel like he is rally fake when he is doing this he has done this to me all the time we have been together 20 yrs. what is wrong with him he doesn't ...

We still live together but I'm worried about the friends zone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

19 March 2012 (M) - Hello, hopefully someone can help me out. Back in october my girlfriend, that lives with me still, broke up with me. we were together for over a year and a half. and she told me she still cares for me and other people claim she does, but she w...