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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i think my little sister has a crush on my best freind hes 20 as im i and shes 16 well 17 in 3 weeks.she has always been mega shy and never had a bf and hasnt even done anythink at all with a boy. ressenlty she has been cuddling up to him when we whach dvds,her face lights up when he enters a room, shes always textes or calls him just to talk as she puts it. and when he gives her a goodbye hug she blushes like mad. my freind is a nice guy and hates to hurt other people fealings but i dont know if he feals the same or if hes just being nice (he is in no way leading her on hes not like that)i dont want to see my sister get her heart broken what should i do ?
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 ooooh you are such a good big brother!!.... Now for the sad part. Nothing. Not a thing. All girls get their hearts broken at one stage or another. If you try and talk to her about it you risk embarrassing her... Maybe you could mention that your friend has a crush on someone else? Or gently inform her that he has a girlfirend his own age? Something along those lines? Talk to your friend, If he is not feeling the same way as her then cuddling with him on the couch may not send the right message.
Remember that you are a great big brother and with your help your sister will get past it. (First heartbreaks are always the worst)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): I think the best thing you can do for you sister is just let her go on with her crush. If your friend feel the same way then he'll probably talk to her first . I did the same thing when I was her age with my brothers friend it's perfectly normal. Plus you already know the guy so can trust that he's going to give your sister the proper respect :) I hope this helps
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