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writes: Is it wrong for girls to ask guys out?The reason why is because...well you know the dealOverprotective old school parentsThey always tell me about how guys mess all over you when you flirt with them and stuff and that it isn't Ladylike to chase guys around.Its not that im disrespectfully disagreeing with my mom and dad I kind of agree but does me really flirting with guys and stuff automatically make me a slut or a whore?Can I not have fun,talk and flirt with guys and still keep my dignity and respect as a female?Its not really me chasing guys around and trying to get boyfriendsUnless I really like someone, I am usually only kidding and not being serious at all. And it's usually with the guys I know(rarely ever with a total stranger unless I've always wanted to speak to them but never had a chance)Is that wrong?
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reader, xgod  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 There is nothing wrong with making the first move and putting yourself out there when you are in a comfortable state of mind and companionship with the one in whom you are interested.Many old-school cultures still hide behind the misogynistic (women are weak and inferior to men) attitudes. Today those old ideals are less of an issue for most people. However, there are fanatical and evangelical parents who follow the traditions of centuries ago and will not like a woman to make the first move on their son.Just be yourself. If you want a guy to ask you out and are uncertain, try this:Wear a tight shirt with no bra, or a bra that allows your nipples to poke bumps in your shirt. Flirt only with the man you like most and ask him what he thinks of your shirt. Make it clear to him you want him. If he does nothing, give him a hug and say you really like him.The only way you would ever be considered a slut or whore is if you are constantly going after multiple guys or guys who are already dating other women. The best response to any parent who says that women should not ask men out is... Calmly explain that Women's Suffrage was passed 100 years ago and if they cannot come to terms with it being the 21st century, they need to examine their perspective on life, the universe, and everything.
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