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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Do we tell the parents of my son's girlfriend that we walked in on them having oral sex?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - My husband and I walked in on my 17 year old son performing oral sex on his girl friend who is 16. My husband and I disagree on what we should do. I think that we should call her parents and tell them what happened. My husband on the other hand said ...

My husband blames fertility issues on me being over weight! Couldn't it just as well be HIM that is the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hello all, I have been with my man for 5 years, married for almost three. We havent been actively trying to have a baby but we havent not been trying either. For years I thought my husband had issues downstairs, and I found out I have fertilit...

I work hard, while he borrows money from me and then takes days off from work to watch sports!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - My partner pays maintenance for 1 child + ex. He’s a salesman so income varies. I just had to lend him money to replace his stolen phone because he couldn’t afford to, and then he also needed extra money to tide him over until his commissions were ...

Should I work in another city than my wife? Will distance bring us closer? I don't want to go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - Before I come to my problem let me take you to its history. I was 11 and fell in love with 9 years old girl who happened to be orphan living in orphanage in front of our old house in our hometown. We would meet in the park and played there...

How do I get my mom to let me visit my estranged grandparents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - So hey all aunts and uncles So.. I'm visiting my estranged grandma and grandpa, see I haven't seen them in 17-18 years...I'm 19 years old Like I'm nervous, I'm going to a town called flint its in Michigan. I vist them next week.. I'm so sc...

Mother getting on my nerves about my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - so my mother is starting to get on my nerves about my boyfriend. i know thats hes not cheating on me , and she keeps on erking me telling me she hopes we brake up. she thinks im changing when i know for sure im not. if she keeps on with her bull i ...

I kissed another man. How do I tell my husband, who has been away for work reasons. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I kissed a man at a conference a week ago... I've been married for 7 years. My sex drive is WAY higher than my husband and this has been a struggle our whole marriage. Every four to eight weeks on average... And nothing while I was pregnant. I ...

He is 40 and I am 25. Is that too old if you both like each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - im 25 and the guy i like is 40. is that too old if you both like each other? and do older men think 25 is to young? im pretty mature i mean ifinished grad school, and still live with my parents but am looking to eventually move out.. i was wondering ...

Should just keep him out of our lives. And deny access to his child? But is it the right thing to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi i am in a situation with my baby's father apparently he's with someone else now and we just broke up last week. It hurts to know that he's with the one girl he cheated on me last weekend but i am just doing fine what i wanted to ask was i dont ...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

His parents hate me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Ok, so i lied to my boyfriend and he forgave me but his parents absolutely hate me. They used to like me but when i lied to my boyfriend, it made them hate me. Then me and my boyfriend got in a fight yesterday and he texted me and said goodbye and ...

My family thinks I'm too young for this marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hello i need someones opinion. im getting married in November but my family does not think that is the best choice. they say that if i get married im going to be miserable that im going to want to I've my life later on in the future and im going t ...

How do I assert with my elder sister the kind of relationship I want us to have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - My elder sister is now 46 and has been suffering from variously diagnosed mental illness since she was 17. Her first psychotic episode happened when I was 14 and left in charge of my younger sister who was 4 at the time. My parents were away ...

Mother in law interference....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi. My mother in law is so controlling. She wants to tell me how to give her money, when to phone her and how many times. She practically wants to run every facet of my life. How i am raising my children. Apparently i am staying with two of her ...

My family wont accept my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I am 26 yrs old, my partner's 28, yet my parents will not and cannot accept him. He's Black Canadian, I'm Canadian by birth but my family is of Lithuanian descent, so that makes us Lithuanian-Canadians. However, they won't accept him AT ALL....

How can I support him? Could he be lying to cope with his parents' divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have this very good guy friend. He is a really good guy, very sweet and usually an honest person. About two weeks ago he texted me he wasn't going to be in school. I asked why, and he said family issues. I told him I hope eveythings ok and h...

My brother is obsessed with his ex wife and I can't deal with helping him anymore! Do I write him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm curious as to what everyone would do about this (if anything) My brother was divorced from his ex wife about 8 years ago. They have one daughter who is now 10 yrs old. The trouble: he is obsessed with her and it's making him sick...

Have I just forgotten what is fair? I feel like we are not married even though we have been for 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Forgotten what normal is... My second Husband and I have been married for three years together for four we have a two year old son between us and each have two other children from previous marriages. Our relationship has been utter turmoil, w...

Unexpected! I just don't want this....What can I do or say to get her to stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Hey there everyone I need some help on my relationship. My GF and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. Everything has been going great we moved in together in April of this year and everything was perfect. But today she approched me after work and ...

Should I create a bedroom for my 24 year old daughter or keep the study for myself in apartment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - This might seem like a slightly odd question relating to family and home. My daughter is now 24 and has moved far away from home for 5 years now to be at Uni. She is very happy where she is living and it looks like she will stay there maybe for ...

I feel like I am competing with her kids and her ex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - Is it screwed up to feel as though you are sharing someone with kids and an ex? As though they're never fully yours and always belong to an ex. Its so tough to admit it though. ...

How should a childless step dad who earns less than his wife be involved in family finances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - My new husband who earns less than me never contributes anything more than a share for himself only, even when he has extra cash. I have two children and two dependants and earn alot more than him. He has no interest to find out even how much i pay ...

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a bo...

Do these crazy dreams mean we are meant to have one more child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - i had a dream my ex got me pregnant and then another night had another dream that I GOT HIM PREGNANT ... what does this mean? and we have an 8 month old together does it mean we are meant to have 1 more child?...

My baby's father cheated and had a baby with her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for two years and i got pregnat in may 2010 and while i was pregnat he had cheated on me most of my pregnacy but after my son was born i wanted my family together so i for gave him. i found out the girl he was cheating on ...

How do I get this sex addict some help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - A member of my immediate family is gay. None of us have a problem with this, however his behaviour over the last 16 years is causing me to question whether he is a possible sex addict. He has never had a meaningful relationship in his life. He has...

How do I deal with my husbands family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I have been married for 4 years to a very kind and loving man but I do not get on with his family. His family take the mickey out of me and call me posh and snigger about me behind my back. We come from very different social backgrounds and they go ...

When is the right time for me to come out as a Cross Dresser? I need help to come to terms with my life.

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26 September 2011 (M) - I am whats classed as a cross-dresser. I want to be able to 'come out' to my parents, to my school mates, to everybody. I am afraid to do this, I have almost told my Mam once or twice, but Dad is so male, that I am afraid to tell him. I need help ...

My FWB: I'm starting to like him and I want to know how or if I should let him know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone I'm new to this and hopefully will get some advice ... I've been sleeping with this guy for about a year and half I guess we are friends with benefits. Even though he has said he likes me, and one time after sex he told me I was going ...

Does real love even exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I have a question and an opinion to ask of anyone here and if they could please help m out. I want to know if "love" between a man and a woman can really exist? Is it worth it to let someone in and really give 100% to the other individidual? I ask ...

Should I wait for him or just end the relationship now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - 0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ...

How can I tell my family that I'm bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - hi im bisexual and i want tell my family but there really old fashioned and they would reject me in seconds what should i do...

I dislike my mother's partner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I dislike my partner's mother. What do I do? We never got off to a good start. When I met my partner his mother felt that I should be visiting her all the time, like his ex wife did. Not knowing if the relationship would last I did not want t...

Is a woman who doesn't want kids doomed to be single forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Is a woman (who's 33 in two months)who doesn't want a man with kids doomed to be single forever? I am in the process of splitting from a father of two who i have been with for two years. experience has taught me that i'm too insecure to embr...

Am I in the wrong for not wanting this help pushed on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hi, i'm at a low point at the moment in my life and this has only come about withing the last few days. This may be long!! I am married and my hubby is currently away on tour, our welfare team (set up to deal with any issues) has organised day tr...

The man I loved made a complete volte-face after marriage and my life is hell with him. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I kindly need your opinion regarding my marriage situation.I have been married for 5 years with the man I loved with all my heart.We've been together for 11 years prior to marriage(since high school).We couldn't marry and live together because of ...

Should I call this girl who I think my husband had an affair with? He says he didn't cheat.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! Well I need advice. I believe my husband has had an affair, over an 8 month period. I have asked him 3 different times, and he has denied any wrong doing. He became irate and said that men and women can be friends without having sex....

I love him, but my family says he's from a lower caste!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - im 19. In love with this guy who is also 19.im a roman catholic. My parents are dead against our match. They say he is from a low cast family and the family is not suitable for me. His family has accepted me and they love me absolutely. We have had ...

My parents are disgusted by me after they caught me masturbating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - Okay, so I'm around 19. I'm asian, and my family are catholic nuts. (No kidding, it's all they talk about) So lately i've been kind of stressed out because i recently got unemployed and looking for another job and school work was taking it's toll...

I do all the loving and giving but don't get much back in return

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - im finding it very hard moving on from a relationship weve spilt up 6 wks ago and were together a year. ive got a daughter and he had a son. so the rountine was basically this,pretty much moved in with me as he had a job in my town as he lived ...

I don't enjoy travelling. Why can't my family just accept that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - My family is always trying to get me to go on family vacations and my parents are always trying to get me travel by myself too. The problem is I hate to travel. I tried family vacations, I tried traveling by myself and I have tried traveling ...

How do I get this older guy, who's known me since I was little, to notice me and see me as a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - i really need help with this, pleaseeee. i've known this guy almost all my life, years have gone by and we have both definitely grown a lot. He is so attractive and hot, and i am just now starting to notice him. He is a couple of years older then...

Is my relationship destined for doom, or can it be fixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - Well, I have been with my husband for 5 years, we have 2 amazing kids. In the past, I believe he has cheated on me several times, I could never get over it then though he hadn't admitted to it. I know in my heart he has, I had reliable sources. Any...

I just want to write, but my parents just want me to be rich.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

24 September 2011 (?) - I need some advice You see, I'm an artist at heart right? basically a writer. I go to a highly respected creative arts school to study creative writing. Its like college course stuff for high school students. I'm in my first year and I'll...

My brother in law is a womaniser--- Should I tell my sister about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - We are indians. My sister got married to an American Indian man.This was his second marrige and he hid that from us. My sister came to know about it during hers immigration process. However, she accpeted that man. She came to US in 2008.Fortunately, ...

I'd like to move away from both my B/f's family and mine to a new city and raise our baby, but I don't think my B/f would ever agree to that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - So I'm 21 and pregnant. About 5, almost 6 months along. And I'm having trouble with the family thing. I love my boyfriend, and his family has been so supportive of our relationship, of us. Well I should say his mom and his dad have. But I just...

The reality of an open relationship is not so good

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hello - My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We have talked about an open relationship and I thought this was a good idea. I had sex with another man a couple of months ago. It was only one time and it truly was just sex. It was ...

How to tell my parents that I'm dating my ex again after a very destructive break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I recently decided to get back together and I don't know how to break the news to my parents (who I still live with). Back story: He is my first and only love and I am his. We were together for about two years but had a very b...

Husband left and parents want to arrange a marriage, is this right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hi I am a 33 year old female and have a very complicated problem. My husband used to threaten all the time to leave when we had a fight. I would always request, beg and pacify. The day I didnt he left home that was 3 months back. I tried to reach hi...

Will marrying someone who cares about me help me forget my 31 year old married lover ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - well i am in love with a man whose 31 years old while i am early 20s, sadly hes married and has a child.so i want to get rid of him but cant.so i am thinking of getting married to someone.at least i will have a husband and a home with whom i ll sha...