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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Oddly attracted to cousin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Well, how can I explain this... recently, I have been very "oddly" attracted to my female cousin. I don't know why, but I need to know. Is this wrong? Please help me out guys, I'm waiting....

I am tired of my boyfriend being too relaxed on the weekends to go out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a demanding 4 year old boy and a boyfriend of 1 year. We see each other twice a week. Half of the time he calls to say his shift happens to be short that day so he could see me. The other times we call on the weekends and hope we would meet ...

How do I resolve all of these issues that I have with my dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I'm don't know how to resolve an ongoing issue with my dad. He and I haven't been that close for many years. He left us just before I started gradeschool and he started a new family. He was a fun guy for me when I was a kid, but then he changed very ...

My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them ...

Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 ...

Do I just sit back and let my boyfriend disown his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. Our relationship has been plagued by the same problem from the very start. I am West Indian and he is East Indian. So, his parents come from India and mine from the Caribbean. Both of our parents are ...

What option do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend have recently split up and we have a 2 month old baby. I have recently declared my self homless and I will need to put my name down for a new home. I have 2 opptions, 1/ stay in the same area code as my x because he ...

How do I get over the anger I feel towards my parents?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I just turned 30 and I'm still hurting from anger at my parents, and I'll always struggle with that anger. In my heart of hearts, I feel certain that they didn't want me and that they don't love me. I don't want to have to bear their surname ...

Save your "you are just a kid" speeches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok righto. My beautiful girlfriend's mum brewed up a shit storm with a friend of my family. The mum is a hell of a lot less immature than than my love. So after the fact things between my girlfriend, lets call her Ella, and me have been a bit ...

What sort of man would do this to his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have had a married lover for over 25years, when I met him he was not married, anyway I have 1 son with him and he has 3 sons with his wife, he paid child support for the child for 19 years, But he (my son) caught us talking dirty on the internet ...

I feel I have been pushed into child access arrangements

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend split up this week. We have a 2 month old baby and we both agreed that, he would have are daughter for 3 day at his home and 1 night. This means that I would be takeing care of her for 4 days and 6 nights. Their is ...

Am I being too fussy? People tell me at 27 I am leaving it too late to find someone and settle down

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I had a serious relationship that ended 4 years ago (we were together 4 years). I could have married him had we met when I was a bit older, I wasn't ready to settle down then. He was no doubt my first love but we have remained friends and both are ...

Every time I let him come back and get "sucked" back in because I care about him. Help..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 4 years. This is both of our second marriage. He had 2 kids and I had 4 kids from our previous marriages. We now have a 2 yr. daughter together for a total of 7 kids. This man can be loving to me and the ...

Do I stay and work in UAE to support my children's basic needs and education, or do I go back to Philippines and work again as a teacher to guide my children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I am a 38 yr old mother, self-supporting my 3 children, ages 15, 9, and 5. My husband is not helping me out financially for the children reasons I left my work as a public teacher back in the Philippines and work abroad....

My parents found out I am having sex and want me to get married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid.. im 19 years old.. just a week berfor my 19th birthday my parents confrented me about them finding out that i was having sex with my Boyfriend. so she wanted me to get married like that same weekend. me and my boyfriend dont...

I'm regretting what I did to my sister when we were younger, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played ...

In order for them to 'improve' their own life and become strong men, I have to boot them out! Right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (?) - Hi, I'm a 53 year old lady, with 3 kids. Husband and I are divorced and he works away, in another area of the country. My kids are all adults, 2 sons aged 29 and 18, 1 daughter, aged 31. The older 2 kids have 'boomeranged' back to living here with ...

Am I a drama craver???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hey, ive been with quite a few guys (i started very early) with my first bf at 10 - we were more just mates with the occasional kiss on the cheek to show off to other mates. i then moved on to this boy who i was seeing for a few weeks and then he ...

I can't tell if she just wants to be friends or more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Just needed some advice on something thats been going on recently. So I met this girl who was new in town and she barely knows anybody here, I took her out to a hookah bar and I just came back from the moutains right now, but the thing is I don't ...

I can't stop loving her but I am setting myself up to getting hurt over and over again, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I am having difficulty in Switching off love?.. I have been in a relationship with my wife for 11 years we were 17 when we started dating and she was pregnant at 18 and gave birth to our son, we only got married 3 years ago. She was my best and...

Sick of being treated like my sisters personal slave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I,m 18 years old in a few weeks and I,m the youngest in my house. I have an older sister (26) and I feel like her personal slave. everyday I have to clean up after her and Make things for her. She acts like a 5 year old! I could never say no to ...

Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my ...

How can I handle having this baby on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi I am in such a bind and I would like someone to help me please! I am currently pregnant with my 2nd child with the same guy I had my first child with. Well me and him have been broke up for a year now and he does not want nothing to do with me. ...

Having dreams of incest and now I can't look my father in the eye, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've had the same extremely disturbing dream the last couple of nights. My dreams consist of my dad and I... doing something really disgusting with each other. Committing incest. In my dream last night, my dad wanted to go again and I screamed o...

I am worried I crossed a line and did major damage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel bad about the most recent talk I had with my boyfriend and I don't know if I caused irrevocable damage to us. I am 25 my boyfriend is 20 and age has not been an issue until recently (and it isn't really an age thing anyway, just ...

We share a half sister but I still love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Well there's this girl, I've known her my whole life. Her brother and I are best friends. I'm in love with this girl. I see her every weekend when I stay the night at her grandma's house. I'm 16 and she's 13. A couple of summers ago I told her that ...

I have had sex with my cousin but I cant decide if I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i cant decide if im in love with my cousin. he is everything to me. we started talking about 4 years ago now and we are extremely close. we have done alot of sexual things. im 14 almost 15. i would do anything from him. i few weeks ago he told me he ...

Trapped into marriage and wanting to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi im a 31yr old man who is going through the hardest time of my life at the moment,these are my problems. 9yrs ago i finished my apprentiship and had enough cash to head overseas. At this stage i meet a girl that i was very clear to about my plans ...

If his siblings are being nice to me, does that mean that my BF is talking to them about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Does a guy talk about you to his siblings if they are being nicer to you? I have both as a friend on Facebook and his sister sends me best friend things even though I met her once. His brother I've hungout with twice he loves hanging out with me and ...

How can I bring up the 'separation' conversation with my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - well it has been a few months now and I have seen a lawyer and a counselor I think I am ready to have the seperation chat with my wife of 5 years we have been together for 9. I just wanted to ask how does one approach the other on this? Even though ...

Verbal Abuse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I left my husband of 30 years due to horrible verbal abuse and always being blamed for any thing that went wrong. I am having such a hard time finding any kind of support groups. I'm trying to take the high road in this seperation and not do ...

Boyfriend slept with his step sister - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so this is a tricky one... My boyfriend slept with his step sister. It was a long time ago but since it happened the two of the became really close and - best friends even. twenty years ago her mum stole my boyfriends dad from his mum - I'm no...

Child support situation...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Im am in the military and when i enlisted I have told my recruiter that I have children. I only told him that i have two since there are the only daughters that were born in the U.S. He has told me just not to say anything about them and just get in ...

My girlfriend's younger sister caught me in an awkward situation, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriends sister came to visit us on the weekend, she is younger and was playing on the wii so my girlfriend went out for a bit to visit a friend. I was bored so went to bedroom to read for a bit and then I started getting horny and decide...

How do I get my husband to realize all the things I do for this family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - i am 22 years old and am married to a man who treats me as if i should be scrubbing the floors when i am not working full time or taking care of our two year old daughter or throwing up from being 6 months pregnant. we got married three days after i ...

I'm responsible for my demanding 60 year old alcoholic father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - my dad is an alcholic. he has just been relsed from hospital after seven months after he suffered multiple organ failure and very nearly didn;t pull thru. whilste this was happening his home was being reprossessd and all his money was gone (he had ...

Mom didn't tell me she is having sex with this family friend..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I just found out my mom has been dating and having sex with someone we go on vaction with every year, my mom and dad are not together but she did not tell me and she always invites him over to our house to hang out. What should i do?...

I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...

My husband left me for another woman, please help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - My husband recently left me for another woman. We were married for 16 years and he met her at work. I just wondered if anyone else has had that happen to them? and how did it turn out? how long did it take the hurt to go? ...

Has his cheating played with my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - My husband cheated on me 3 times first his cousin,that i found out about after a while,then landords daughter,the third time we had gone out parting me my cousin(not the same cousin from the first incident)and him got so drunk we shared the same ...

Can someone please call 911..lol..any help anyone??????????? major help is needed..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Im baaaaaaaaack.. well it's been a minute since i've been on cupid and just to update everyone on whats going on with my life.. im still with my fiancee, he's been laid off for a year and two months. I've gotten my GED and now I am enrolling into S...

We are cousins and madly in love, should we tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ok, well a few years ago my cousin came to stay with us for a while and we imediately became really close, then one night he kissed me (although i had been wanting too for ages i didnt, because i wasnt sure how he would react.) anyway we ended up ...

Does this mean anything or am I just kidding myself that he cares?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Wow, This may be too log for some but here goes. I had been with my husband for 7 years. The last three were awful. I treated him like crap and it was as though he didn't exist. I was never intimate with him and we never even slept in the sam...

He says he stayed with ex for his son. I don't understand why.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hi I need to know wether I am being a idiot or if its normal to feel how I do. My boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship and this situation is hard but we have a agreement regarding the visits. But my boyfriend has told me about the rel...

My cousin is constantly seeking attention from me on facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a tricky situation and need advice. My cousin who i was very close to moved to Chicago 6 years ago when she got married.We have always kept in touch. Now just before Christmas she joined facebook but she bombards ...

My girlfriend is suspicious and always frowning at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - hi there. my gf and i are having serious problems since she saw me holding her sisters waist. she thinks we have someting doing but we dont! she frowns at everything i do,call me names,even in sex she frowns. please u guys should tell me what to do. ...

Kicking myself for failing my driving test. Again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Morning guys, Im on such a downer. I failed my driving test again yesterday-my 2nd attempt. I had such awful rainy weather and the route was so difficult. I know i need to book myself in again but im soo scared.To make it all worse my family ...

I got my sister pregnant.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I'll give you some background im 22 and i have an 18 year old sister. We've always been really close. When my mom and dad split up she was made to decide where she wanted to live. I had already moved out and got an appartment so to spite our parents ...

I am making my own plans for my future but sad I will never see my mother and sister again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

23 January 2010 (?) - i need help. i am a girl. and me and my girlfriend are planing to leave home after 18 , after school. we are not telling anyone . its like running away but we are legal to. everything is decided. at the end of this year we are leaving. but my mum ...

He wants the baby but not me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - good morning everybody, i'm 23, i have my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years. First, he loved me so much but my parents were really disappointed about our relationship. Now i'm 2 months pregnant, i told him so and he's being like a ...