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writes:Dear Cupid..im 19 years old..just a week berfor my 19th birthday myparents confrented me about them finding out that i was having sex with my Boyfriend.so she wanted me to get married like that same weekend.me and my boyfriend dont want to.we both dicided to get married but not that soon may be in one or two years.after they told me i had to get married and we both didnt want too, i moved out with him.now we are living at his parents house he works and every thing.he can support me and himself in every way.he makes very good money well enough to live in middle class.but the point is that,i know i dont love him.i like him hes done everything he can for me and even took me in. heh saids he loves me.bit i know i dont.i like him and i can see my self with him for a long time but i dont want to cheat on him the future. my parents and i worked things out and they wanted me to go back home.talked to him about it,i told him i wanted to go home but he refuses for me to move back.what should i do??please write back!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): "i told him i wanted to go home but he refuses for me to move back."
How can that be, did he tie you up??? Handcuff you? Nail your feet to the floor? can't carry all your stuff?
Put on your BIG GIRL PANTIES and make a decision and carry it out... you don't need him to ALLOW you to do anything...
And next time you let someone in those panties, might be nice to love them...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): If you don't love him, your parents want you to go home and you also want to go home then you should. You don't have to stay living with him because he says you have to. He isn't the boss of you. If you want to go, then go.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 Well as much as he refuses when you discuss moving out, you can refuse to stay living there.
It is your life and you need to choose your own actions based on what YOU think is best for YOU! Not on what another person wants you to do!
If you don't love him now tho, you would be sacrificing your opportunity at a relationship with someone else that IS right for the long term if you decided to stay.
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