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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I have had it with this guy and don't want to see him anymore, but my Dad doesn't back me up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping someone can help me with my problem. (i'm sorry it's running long)There was this guy from my church who really likes me. In the very beginning, he was sweet and really polite and fun to ahng out with, yet he is an illegal citizen ...

She is a bit of a shy person and supports sex after marriage! I am exactly the opposite!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am in a confused state of my mind regarding my girlfriend.. We were friends from college but chose different universities in different cities to stay in...so we have always been in a long distance relationship..but v hve been together for 4 years ...

He said he doesn't know what he wants and he distanced himself from me. I don't know why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, After being single from a guy I really loved for over 6 months I finally met a really nice guy. His names andrew, hes 22 and Im 27. He works as a care worker and I am a teacher, we have lots in common and get on very well. We have me...

My girlfriend dumped my. Should I give up or try to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - So i went out with this girl for 5 months. She was great and we thought we were in love. Then she broke up with me. I still have feelings for her and she doesnt even want to know about me anymore. I cant get her out of my mind. Shold i let her go or ...

I feel as if I am the only one trying to make our marriage work, after 22 years together. I also suspect she is cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been drifting apart after 22 years of marriage. We don't spend much time together as our jobs are in different shifts. She works from 9AM to 3PM and I work from 3PM to 10PM. She never initiate love making with me and I am the one ...

How do I tell him I have lost the desire to do things with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5958 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - it has been a few years since me and my boyfriend got together...things havent been going all to well here lately. and when i try to talk to him, all he wants to do is touch me, and so on. how do i tell him i have lost the desire to do things with ...

What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake? I have been with my wife for 7 years (married 6) and for the last year or two I have been insanely unhappy. I'm in no way perfect, so I won'...

I love her and care for her, but I feel like I'm being suffocated; I tried telling her this before, but she burst into tears.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I have always sucked at this part and am not sure what to do... I'm 31 and have been dating a girl for about 15 months now. She's also 31, very nice, and we share a great deal in common. There have been some issues since the beginning of our...

My girlfriend never has time for me, it's either her friends, or she is out of town, I am beginning to distance myself, how do I tell her how I feel? he

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Hey, I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout ...

We are more like friends than a couple now. Is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and in the past 6 months our sex life has gone completly, even kisses and cuddles have gone. I have tried more or less everything. We are more like friends now as we have nothing in common like we use ...

Things are changing. He doesn't tell me what he is doing any more. I love him and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 2months and things have been going well in the beginning but as time went on everything changed, he doesnt tell me if he is going home or what, he didnt even tell me dat he went to go fetch his child, he doesn't ...

She told me she doesn't know how she feels any more. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - What to do when your Gf says she doesnt love you? It hurts so much!!!, My girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 years now. A couple of months ago she told me she didnt know how she felt anymore? I was pretty shocked but we agreed...

I'm tired of making time for him while he's often unavailable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been dating this for the past 3 yrs my problem is he works from monday to saturday,he doesn't have time for movies or anything with me we only have a sunday for each other.the problem is that i'm a church goer so i just have time for him for ...

My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to ...

I don't love my husband any more. Should I leave him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 11 yrs and I think I've made a mistake marrying him and did so too young. He is a lovely man - kind, trustworthy, caring, intelligent... The problem is I just don't love him anymore and sometimes find myself almo...

I've fallen for someone new. How can I let my current boyfriend down gently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - been with my bf for nearli year and i really love him but ive got off with other lads behind his back and the latest lad ive met ive realli fallen for and we wanna be together,im going to tell my boyfriend bout us but hes just taken me on holiday ...

Is this a transition or am I falling out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - I don't really know if I love my bf anymore. We've been together for a year and a bit and I know I want to be with him but it just doesn't feel like it used to. I don't look at him adoringly and think 'God you're beautiful I'm so lucky to be with ...

When I tell my boyfriend I love him he gets an attitude. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - what does it mean when your boyfriend use to tell you he loves you but now when i tell him i love him he says i know or he sighs and when i say something about it he gets an attitude and says he doesnt feel that he should feel presured....

Business, Love, Long Distance Relationship.......advice needed badly on how to deal, I feel I'm losing our connection, how should I write him a letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! Im 22 and the guy that im in a long distance relationship with someone who is 23. I live in Pittsburgh, and he lives in Seattle. We have been together for 2 1/2 months. We met each another last month for the first time. He was sup...

He said he doesn't think I love him any more. How am I supposed to prove it to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - Everything's been going great in my relationship (or so i thought)and me and my boyfriend haven't had an arguement in ages. i saw him on mon and everything was fine. we had a BBQ and he kept saying how happy he was and what a good day it was. then ...

He's been so good to me that I don't feel I can dump him, even though I no longer love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - I'm 14, and I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months. He's helped me through some of the hardest times in my life such as when my sister died, helping build up my confidence, and being so sweet too me. I love him alot, but now that I'm ent...

Can a marriage work when two people care about one another, but don't have 'chemisty'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - My husband and I had a very short "dating" experience, we went straight from meeting to moving in to marriage. We didn't take the time to get to know each other and it has been a very long, challenging road just over the past year. We both admit ...

We've had a complicated over cautious relationship - what do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - Hi, the more opinions the better please, this one has me stumped! I started seeing a guy around mid April, we were boyfriend/girlfriend but keeping it quite casual as I'd just come ut of a long relationshipo and he's often busy with work and is ...

My husband doesn't know if he loves me anymore after 7 years - I feel it's a matter of time before he leaves.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - we have been together for 16 years and married for 7 years ( no funnys about the 7 year itch please ) my husband told me a few days ago that he cares for me but is unsure if he loves me anymore , he doesnt want to move out at the moment because hes ...

It started off stong and now it's fading!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - Basically, I've been with this guy for nearly 4 months now, and I am head-over heels for him. We used to spend so much time together, but then I went away for a couple of weeks. When I came back, he seemed distanced from me, we used to see each ...

What can I do to make this break up easier on all of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - Not sure where to begin been with him 14 years and 3weeks ago out of the blue he tells me he doesnt love me the next day its you would be happier without me than its something else. i know there is no one else yet. He has asked for time to think ...

He still watches porn but we have sex very rarely, then he is only focused on his own pleasure and there is no foreplay, etc. We talked about these in vain...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) - Please help I am at my witts end! My partner has gone off sex. Well he has kind of, as he still enjoys watching porn, he just has gone off sex with me. I am 26 and my partner 27.We have been together for nearly 8 years and are happy in every o...

We seem to have nothing to say to one another and I can't handle the bitterness any longer, is this the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfreind for 2 years we have been arguing and irritating each other for 2 months now. It started really as he got a new job as a manager and has been coming home around 9 pm at night. At first i thought maybe he wa...

"Should I stay with someone who is finacially disabled for the word love"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) - we've dating for 2 yrs now my problem is that he is having a poor backround family and works for a non paying company,I'm 26 yrs and i wish get married to someone who is going to be able to do something like buying a house but if i am going to marry ...

After three weeks of marriage, my 25 year old husband obsesses about his pension and isn't interested in me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - I'm 24, and my new husband's 25. We've been married for 3 weeks now and are set to go on honeymoon soon. Since we got married he's lost all interest in sex - when I initiate it he is more interested in surfing the Internet to look up pension plans...

We used to be much closer, calling each other all the time, now I call her 10 times she answers 1 time, what has happened, am I only there for the times she is lonely, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - I have been with her for a year now. We were doing so great. We talked to each other a lot. Everytime, I called her, she is there waiting. It rang the most 2 times, she pick up already. Recently, she always missed my call and rarely text me. ...

What are the signs that he doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - Hi there I've been married for about 7 years now and I know from what I've read from posts in the pasts and on other websites that some relationships reach a cool down point at this stage. But what are the actual signs that your husband d...

Last night it was all love and hugs, and today he acted like he's not really interested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - so there's this guy that i have had a thing for for about 10 months now. i finally admitted to him about two days ago that i've had a crush on him for awhile. he said he could see things working between us in the future. so last night, i was with ...

Will giving him space help him love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - help me plse my boyfriend and i had been ating for 10 months from the start he wanted mearound all the time, abot 1 month in he told me he loved me. we were together all the time his choice. no he says he needs space to do what ever he wants when ...

My ex stood me up...does he miss me and feel something for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - my ex and i dated twice now i broke up with him the first time and then he broke up with me the second time. i never really got over him. i am alwayas thinking about him wondering should i just talk and tell him how i feel. then out of the blue he ...

I'm suddenly not attracted to my boyfriend any more. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) - hey i'm suddenly not attracted to my b/f anymore. he is skinnier and doesn't work out-and i do and i have muscles and i feel like i could break him. last night i was repulsed by kissing him. what do i do?...

We were together for three intense years, I left for two months, when I got back, he had changed, he no longer wanted a relationship, I am dismayed, what the heck happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5976 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) - I know everyone at one point in their lives goes through the anguish of a breakup, but please could someone help me understand. I was in an intense 3 year relationship. It had it's ups and downs, but our love got us through anything. He tol...

How can you tell a man is no longer attracted to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) - How can you tell if your man has become unattracted to you...

The love has faded between me and the woman I've lived with for 13 years. I like somebody else. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - i am 29 year old male and i have been with my girlfriend for 13 years she is also 29..we live together we own a house but for the last 3 years we have not been gettin on..we have split up on various ocations and then got back together, i care a bout ...

My boyfriend and I were together, broke up, got back together, and then broke up. Is there any hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i were together for about a year and living together for about 8 months. we had recently broken up for a week and then got back together. everything was great at first i mean we were gonna get a new place together and he was so ...

I'm hurt that he didn't tell me about his promotion.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - This guy I love so much, he's in the Air force and on assignment some place else. I found out he's being promoted and yet although we communicate often he didn't wanted to tell me. I had to founf out by a web page! We just emailed for this 4th of J...

He played with my emotions for too long, so why do I still feel like he's 'the one that got away'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5976 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I had a FWB relationship with a guy that turned out to get very complicated. Our timing was never right and although we had feelings for each other we never got our relationship under control. I feel like at different times we truly loved each other ...

I am not in love with my wife any more. I need to decide what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

10 July 2008 (M) - I have been married for 18 years and together with my wife for 21. We have three great kids aged from 10-16. My wife is a wonderful person who loves me unconditionally. The problem is that I truly am not in love with her anymore. I care about her ...

He used to be completely obsessive, but now he could care less! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

10 July 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been in our long-distance relationship for eight agonizing months now. We were actually together for four months and then he had to move away. He plans to come back in another year, but the wait is killing me. On top of...

My boyfriend fell out of love with me and we broke up. Now a new guy likes me but my ex keeps calling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - I am very confused. I have an ex-boyfriend that is a great guy and I really loved him. The only thing that went wrong with our relationship is that he simply fell out of love with me. (No real reason there wasn't another girl, nor was it a job ...

I know he probably doesn't feel the same way about me but I want to spend the rest of my life with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid: I met this guy last year because of an accident, somehow he got my msn and added me to his contact list. We started chatting everyday and we found ourselves mad about each other. He studied at the States but was born in my city, so...

We've fallen out of love. Should I keep trying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband since I was 18 and have fallen out of love with him. We still get on really well as friends but really nothing more. My husband knows how I feel and is trying really hard to rebuild our marriage but it just isn't working. ...

She loves me...but, I just don't think I love her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 22 and this is my first relationshipand it has gone for about 1.3 years. The first 6months were great, she was nice to me, a lot of love, lots of sex just perfect but from that on we have sex 1time a month and it seems that is just doing ...

He said the spark is gone, but he still wants to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

9 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half recently told me that our "spark" has gone and he doesn't love me in the same way as he did before, this absolutely devastated me and when he told me I immediately moved in 2 the spare room and cried myself to ...

My girlfriend and I are rarely in contact anymore, and I like another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

9 July 2008 (M) - Sorry for the length, but I desperately need help!!!I'm 12, turning 13 in about a week. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6-7 months now, and I guess for our age, we have a good physical life, but since summer started we haven't ...