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writes:I'm 14, and I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months. He's helped me through some of the hardest times in my life such as when my sister died, helping build up my confidence, and being so sweet too me.I love him alot, but now that I'm entering highschool I'm curious as to what else is out there. I wanna see what it's like to date other guys. He's also very immature, nd I'm embarrased to talk to him in public. Also, I'm not attracted to this guy anymore. I love him and we can talk for hours and I don't have to fake anything, he's seen me in every way possible. I don't want to loose him, but I don't want to be stuck in a relationship with someone i'm not attracted to, and i'm embarrased of.I don't know if maybe I'm just ebing selfish, or if I am right to leave him. I really love him and he's been good to me all the time we've been dating. I really appreciate some advice.
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reader, mamasaidknockyouout +, writes (23 July 2008):
I agree to end it with him because you're not exactly committed and its kind of like lying to him if you stay in the relationship. I'd just be completely honest with him, itd be better for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): Well Sweet Pea, here is the deal....would you rather stay with him, and your both being cheated, or break things off now, and make things fair for both of you. Love isn't anything you can force....If you don't love him, then kindly end it with him....He deserves someone who loves him 100%. Good Luck Missy
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 well hun, i know that you love him, but your obviously just not in love with him anymore. its not right to be embarrassed by him, not be attracted to him etc. it would be more selfish to stay with him then to give him the chance to meet someone who loves him like he deserves to be loved, as do you. i think that you should be fair to this guy and break free. after all your only 14!!! you both are still so young so give yourself some time to explore new things and meet new ppl.
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