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female
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30-35,
*milez09
writes:my ex and i dated twice now i broke up with him the first time and then he broke up with me the second time. i never really got over him. i am alwayas thinking about him wondering should i just talk and tell him how i feel. then out of the blue he e-mailed me seeing how i was flirting with me dropping little hints and things and then he invites me to join in on a double feature movie night with his friend and i replied back saying my friend and i were goin to go see a movie anyways so sure i'll meet you. when the night finally came he was a no show. so my question is does he want me back or does he just miss me in his life ??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): maybe he is just playing around? i dont know what kinda person your ex is. or maybe he just chickened out?
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Well, many factors could have played in him stooding(sp?) you up. Maybe you went to the wrong cinema, or the wrong time, or the wrong day. Maybe there was traffic or his friends were being lazy and didn't get ready fast. Or the simple fact that he just stood you up.
Now, most guys, specially at that age, are very fickle. Maybe he wants to make you suffer for being out of is life. Maybe he wants to toy with your feelings and play you like a puppet. Maybe he really wants you back but chickened out and screwed up a chance with you. The thing I'm trying to say here is that not much information is given.
Now, what you could do is ask him why he stood you up. Dont make a drama out of it nor nag and cry (really try HARD on this). The thing is that if you do make a big drama here he will probably put you down and think you as immature and less of you. If you make yourself the more matured person, you'll probably win the discussion or will actually get good answers.
Good luck and I hope whatever you do will help you.
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