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writes: My boyfriend and I have been in our long-distance relationship for eight agonizing months now. We were actually together for four months and then he had to move away. He plans to come back in another year, but the wait is killing me.On top of that, dating this guy is like riding a roller coaster, I swear! He used to be so jealous and constantly questioning me and demanding that I send him a picture or a video to prove where I was and what I was doing. He was a little bit jealous when we were physically together, but nothing like this. Now, all of the sudden (it started maybe about a month ago) he just doesn't seem to give a rip about me! He's always out with his friends and drinking and makes no time to talk to me anymore. Every night (and I mean EVERY night) he promises me we'll talk and then he says that so-and-so asked him to go hang out and he'll talk to me later. I end up staying up until 3am just to get a chance to talk to him at all, and I have a job to go to in the morning, I can't be doing this.I just don't understand how he can go from always wanting to talk to me and being so jealous and obsessive, to not giving a crap in the slightest. We argue all the time, and I'm always wondering if I should break up with him, but I love him so much, I just can't. I almost wonder if he's cheating on me. He just completely swung from one extreme to other. It makes no sense.I'm sorry if this got a bit lengthy. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for reading.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 He doesn't seem too interested honey! Sorry. It will really help you to move on. Hannah x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf I stopped contacting him, he would simply text me or call me. I never said he doesn't at least contact me. It's just that all he does is check in and say hello and that he's off to do whatever. I want to actually talk to him. I don't know. I'm just not happy anymore.
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 It does sound like he has lost interest. I would just stop contacting him and see what happens.
Best wishes xo
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