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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so there's this guy that i have had a thing for for about 10 months now. i finally admitted to him about two days ago that i've had a crush on him for awhile. he said he could see things working between us in the future. so last night, i was with him and a couple of other friends and he kept hugging me and locking my fingers with his and just being sweet and everything. but then today, he acted like he wasn't really interested in talking to me or anything, even though it was kind of late and he could've been tired. so basically what i wanna know is if it seems that he's into me, or just leading me on or something? if anyone has any idea about this, please let me know. thanks :)
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reader, Linzii  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 It sounds like he might just be leading you on. Or he could feel the same as you but wants to play it call cause he dosen't want to show it. i think you should ask him whats going on. i no its easier said than done but its better to find out the truth than not knowing at all even if it does hurt you. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): A lot of people post questions like this around your age. I'm not saying it was pointless you posting the question, because it wasn't. But its made me realize that its a male thing.
At that sort of age...
I think he was probably just leading you on...I don't want to hurt you or anything but it sounds like he was. I think you should stand up for yourself, ask him out straight and find out for yourself. You can't assume what your gut instinct, mine or anyone elses. You need to ask him, if he says yes then ask why he was like that before - not interested and that. Be weary if anything happens. If no ask why he was like that when you were hugging and that.
As I said, keep an eye out if anything does happen.
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