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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I proposed, she accepted me - but now she suddenly wants to break up thinking I have cheated. How do I convince her of the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I'v been in a long distance realtionship with this really wonderful gurl since 7months...we've been liking each other since 2 years now but then it took me time to propose her and then she accepted me.now 7months down the line she wants to break up ...

How will I know if this relationship is at the end of the road??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

How do I stand on my own two feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I am divorcing my husband at the moment. It is stressful. I am a housewife since I've married my husband 20 years ago. I have to look for job and stand on my own two feet now. I have no work history or any qualification to fall back on. I met ...

The big question is How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi there I have recently been dumped by my first "true love". We are both 22 and I am still a virgin. The question is how do I get her back. My ex and I started going out 3 months ago and we saw each other a lot, everything was great apart from...

How do I keep this relationship alive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Any suggestions on keeping an 8-month relationship from becoming "boringly comfortable"? * cliff notes version: **been together 8 months, known eachother for 16mo. ** Age gap relationship, I'm older ** everything is still good (no fig...

I still have feelings for him, but should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my ex boyfriend, says that he still loves me and that he will want to get back with me in a couple of months again becuse he thinks that we will be together for ever! But i dont' no if i want to becasue i am leaving in a year and i want to party an...

We became rommates instead of married lovers, I feel miserable and lonely and think I should not have married her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - i want to divorce my wife...there is no intamacy or love between us anymore. she refuses to go to counselling now. she says she won't give me a divorce. we've become roommates instead of married lovers. i think we should never have got married in ...

We broke up, then I found it was my duty to try again - but the time apart has changed things even more, and there are hardly things in common anymore or inspirational conversations. How do I know when it is time to stop trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children ...

How can I revive our love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Our Love is Dying... I met the cutest guy in april. Him and me instantly clicked and we started going out. We have been going out for about 7months now. We hang out everyday except for the days i go to college. However, our relationship wen...

He prefers not seeing each other every day, only in weekends - and not calling either. Isn't a relationship having one life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 November 2007 (?) - Hi, I ve been with my bf for 2 years, im 20 hes 22. We love each other very much. I depend so much on him, i like callin him everyday, talkin to him, see him in college between classes if i can. I cant get enough from seein him. But he doesn...

I cheated, but he didnt show any interest in me, should I get back with my boyfriend or wait for someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Ok, i was goin out with my boyfriend for 4 years, about 3 months before we broke up i met a guy i known from school out clubbin i always really liked him and very attracted to him so i brought him back to my place (after lots to drink) and i had sex ...

I cannot be close friends with my ex whilst I still love her. I would love to have her back, do I talk to her about this and how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - Hi there, I'm a 22 year old guy who has just split from his second ever, and longest, relationship. I basically have rarely if EVER really liked a girl enough for a relationship, I cannot stand someone who is easy or who has had many sexual ...

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex. Has he seriously has lost interest in me? Could it possibly be he's THAT concerned about house issues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Okay, so I've read the other questions about men not being interested in sex, but I think mine is different. Here's the deal. I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 38. We have been together a little over 3 years and a year and a half ago we bought a "fixer ...

Several times in our marriage we have gone multiple years without being intimate. I need to feel loved, wanted... How do I leave without hurting my children in the process?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - The Marriage Bed I “Lie” In About a year and a half ago, we bought a new bed. I think it was our third in 18 years of marriage. Our first king sized. If you were to look down on us sleeping in it, you would see two people on the outer edges and ...

My husband treats me bad. Now I am in love with his best friend. I was told it was noticeable from both of us, our gestures etc.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 11 years now and our marriage has always been rocky. I got pregnant and I felt we had to get married. I do love him, just not the way I should anymore. In the last year, his best friend has become my best ...

She takes my love for granted and gets mad if I broach the subject, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been seeing this girl for roughly 5 to 6 months and loved her so much but now it seems like she just makes me miserable and she just takes advantage of my love. She sort of takes it for granted. The worst part is if i try to talk about it...

I want to break up with my girlfriend as I'm not happy with her but I don't want to break her heart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - Hi. I am currently in an unhappy 2 and a half year relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and i am so terrified at breaking her heart. I know what to do but i just need some support and advice on ...

Do you think there's someone else? Or that he's not attracted to me anymore? His sex drive decreased very much...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - For a couple months it seems like my boyfriends sex drive has dramaticly decreased. We use to do it atleast 3 times a week and now ill be lucky if its 2 times a month. And when we do i have to start it. Also i mention it and he just acts aggravated ...

Suspected: The Cheated Becomes The Cheater...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

22 November 2007 (M) - Hi All, I appreciate all the comments on my original post about the break up (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-get-loads-of-attention-from-other-girls.html). Yesterday evening I found out she’s been seeing someone else for the last month ...

The more my husband is promoted, he becomes more critical, insulting, demanding. I'm ignorant compared to his knowledge, and if I leave he'd take my children away from me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - where do I begin.... I have been married for almost 5 years. I have two beautiful children and thought myself to be happy... and yet the more my husband is promoted, he has become more critical, more insulting, more demanding, more controll...

Am I still in love or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I have a problem... or not... I am not even sure. I have a boyfriend that is very much in love with me... And it's not the words kind of love but the one in which he actually shows me that everyday... I'm happy but i just don't feel that ...

I may be in love with a person I dated during the short time I was separated from my bf. Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I am 18 and have been with my b/f for 4 and a half years. I now think im in love with someone else who i dated before when me and my b/f broke up for about a month or 2! Im really confused but dont want to hurt anyone...Help!...

I feel my husband always finds activities that do not include me! I'm bored and frustrated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - my husband spent 7 years going out every night and secretly smoking pot,now that has all stopped he spends every available moment alone upstairs playing on the computer. it just seems that he finds ant thing to do that doesn't include me,i'm so ...

He's loaded but he always counts value for money. He does not like to eat out, is always looking for bargain, will not help a friend when they're in need of money. Do I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I am 45 just divorced. My husband has got very ill temper. He used to take me to a meal or buy my gifts or holidays to apologize. It's not working anymore as I cant bear it anymore so I've divorced him. Then I met this man 18 years older than ...

I think my relationship is dying out. Should I try to make it better or just let it die?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. In the beginning he was very adament about showing his feelings, saying nice things, and doing nice things. I ama girl who likes to be appreciated for who I am and for things I do for my ...

He left after a few months of marriage "being confused." Maybe a third person involved, is that plausible? He returned but I have a nagging doubt it'll happen again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, if your husband walks out on you after a few months of marriage and the only reason he gives that he was confused and wanted to be single again. Do you think there was someone else, it does not make sense, he said there was noone else, ...

Don't a lot of prostitutes have to sleep with overweight old men?? I feel like one if I have sex with my husband because of his weight-gain - he's clinically obese now and refuses diets.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I'm 27 and have been married to my husband, who's 32, for 5 years now. He's become 26 stone and refuses to lose weight, despite me telling him that it could cause problems - but he insists "it's better to be fat and happy than thin and unhappy...

I prefer this new guy. How do I get out the relationship I am in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I aleady have a boyfreind, we have been going out for a week now, but i have met this new boy and we both like eachother, he is 5 years older than me, we both want 2 get with eacother but cant bcasue of my boyfreind please help me! I want this othe...

What can I do to feel more attracted to my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hi ALL I posted a question earlier today - and i'm not sure if i asked in the correct way. But i would really appreciate more answers. The question was posted as: I fell out of love with my bf - what can I do to restore the passion? Please p...

To save us more pain, should I just walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend have been doubting about us. As a result he can't get physically intimate with me. He says he loves me and has a great time. When I ask if he wants to take a break and start seeing each other, he says he doesn't want to or the ...

What are his reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - My b/f never told me that he loves me like before. i had ask him that a lady needs to hear sweet words form her lover. You know what he says "Honey, i know what i have to do or say, u dont have to tell/remind me, i got reasons why" I ask myself what ...

I fell out of love with my bf - what can I do to restore the passion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hello all. I really need help - seriously. Okay. My bf and i have been together for a year and a half. Things were very passionate in the beginning of our relationship, but then we went through some difficult times. We worked through our diffi...

The mixed signals are driving me crazy, how can she like me and someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6242 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Ok so I am just about 20, and so is this girl that I dated/dating for a year, and everything was going grate. We both go to the same university. And as the end of summer brake was coming to an end I noticed that she was pulling away from me. I ...

Should I forgive him and put it in the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is totally different then what he was when we first got together he would spoil me with hugs and kisses all the time and hang out with me more than anyone but now its like we dont hardly talk unless i call him or something and he's ...

If I could change everything with magic I would be married to the sister instead of my wife. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

18 November 2007 (M) - i am stuck in a loveless marriage. my wife and i don't sleep together nor are intimate with one another. we've basically become two people living together. we definately are not in love with each other. we've been to counselling, but that does not ...

My bf is very controlling, I feel I'm living with my parents again. I don't want to leave him thinking of my son's stability. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - hey cupid...I think I hate my boyfriend. I mean he is a great guy who wants to take care of me and he is the father of my son. But he wants to be in control. And I dont just mean some times I mean all the time. He alwasy wants to know were I am and ...

How do I get my feelings back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend and i fear my feelings for him are going. How do I get them back because i really want to stay with him?...

What do I do to get him to listen.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - oki so im dying inside becuase my boyfriend doesnt even want to look at me because of all teh shame he had put apon me and my daughter for what hes put us through. Being a addict so he goes to get help for crack buts still drinks alot, and hasnt ...

An issue I thought we had solved resurrected and we became very violent towards each other. Am I mad to still love him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - me and my guy have been together for 4yrs we have a son aged 3 and kids from previous relationships,the last year aint been so good between us a lot of arguments and ive been the one whom has done all the running to patch things up due to the fact ...

I am afraid to leave because of obvious financial and family issues but also worrying about my husband's depressive personality. How do I avoid feeling empty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6224 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - I have been married for 18 years, I am 41 and he is 42. A rebound relationship I probably should have never committed to but did. He is a good person and a hard worker. We have 2 children 15,17. I don't know if I can spend the rest of my life ...

Men from Mars and Women from Venus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid...I've been having this long distance relationship for about 3 years now planning to move in together next year. But, recently he's been very busy and we haven't seen each other over a month. For me it's been very tough, but I think he ...

Unhelpful cheat, we have no trust, shall I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - There is no denying that I will have to leave my husband as I don’t love him any more no matter how much he tries now. The question is when and how ? I feel trapped in a prison of my own circumstances. We were university sweethea...

Is this maturity and not love struck teenagery, or is my feelings and reactions an alarm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

16 November 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we live together. Things are mainly great, buit we do tend to have a bad patch every couple of months or so, we both just seemto get caught up in ourt own stresses of every day life and work etc, and it ...

Since our baby was born, he refuses physical contact, always having excuses.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

16 November 2007 (F) - Hi. father of my baby give excuses when i ask him when are we going to make love. Our baby has 9 months since then i had never made love and sometime i get horny when i just look at him. he does'nt kiss me unless i ask for a kiss. its killing me to ...

He told me he had the same feelings towards me, later announced me he has a gf! What should I say to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

16 November 2007 (F) - OKay well I'm not dating this guy but I really do like him a lot. He told me he has the same feelings for me too but Today he gives me a call and we talked for about two minutes and then he tells me to get on the computer so we can talk on there. So ...

I don't want to lose him but I feel like he's playing with my heart. Does he love me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been off and on for seven years. The last four have been iffy. I don't know if he really wants to be with me. I hear I love you, I want to be with you. But I don't believe it. We recently split and are no longer living together. I ...

What is a casual relationship? I disagree with my partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

15 November 2007 (M) - I have been in an intimate relationship with another male for three months. Now he is saying we are moving too fast and in the future we should develop a casual relationship. His definition of casual relationship is a monogamous, committed ...

I just woke up one day and she had packed her bags...now there are photos of her with another man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

14 November 2007 (M) - About 7 weeks ago, I woke up one Saturday morning to find that my partner of 5 years had packed some bags and said that she didn't think she loved me anymore and that she needed some time to be herself. We never argued and we had a great ...

Amazed my dream girl ended it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

14 November 2007 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend of two years is my dream girl, i love her so much and we have seen each other nearly everyday since we got together, She has always been intense and loved spending time with me, i have always been honoured that she felt that way...

I don't feel sexually attracted to my husband of 4 yrs. I'm not sure I can go on when I don't enjoy kissing and sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

14 November 2007 (F) - I'm feeling very confused. I have been married for 4 years and have a beautiful 19 mth old girl. My problem is I don't feel sexually attractive to my husband. I don't enjoy kissing him and I don't enjoy having sex with him. He watches a lot of ...