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female
age
30-35,
*eangirl101
writes: my boyfriend is totally different then what he was when we first got together he would spoil me with hugs and kisses all the time and hang out with me more than anyone but now its like we dont hardly talk unless i call him or something and he's always hanging out with his friend all the time he blows me off for him all the time. you see last weekend we made plans for him to come over my house and watch movies all night...well five minutes before he was suppse to be at my house he called and said we had to reschedule cuz he was gonna go hang out with his friend i said no biggy so we said we would do it the next day but he did the same thing the next day and come to find out he was with his guy friend and my friend who happened to be a girl anyways i called him and kinda cussed him out and he got mad i know your suppose to make time for yourfiend in a relationship but you NEED TO MAKE TIME FOR YOUR GIRLFRIEND To so then i felt bad so i drove over to his house and i made this cute sign that said " me sorry" and i knocked on his door and held up the sign and said forgive me and he said no and shut the door (very slowly) in my face and it felt like someone socker punched me in the gut so i got home and he texted me saying sorry i love you blah blah blah it been a week and he calls me every day and texts me sorry so my question is should i forgive him and put it in the past?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): No you should not forgive him if you made plans with him a weekend and he did the same thing you had the right to be mad and get all bitchy okay and you didn't have to say your sorry because he hurt your feelings
But now he'll do it again because you said sorry first and he knows you won't do anything about it...talk it out more because sorry won't help anything it may nice to hear it but it is real nice if you just talk it out
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