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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My army guy deserted me years ago and now...he's back and wants to be with me! All these feelings are coming back..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i have a big problem when i was 16 i fell in love with an armyboy we would spend all our time together when he was on leave he was 3 years older then one week he never came back and stopped answering my calls i found out he had got married 6 yrs on ...

What have I done wrong??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - Hello Just looking for some realistic and professional advice to my problem. If you can provide me with a solution(s) then it will be very much appreciated, thank you. I am a 41 year old male. My situation is very unique and complex to me bu...

Once we slept together, he wouldn't answer his phone. But I still like him so how can I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago and i slept with him, but once we slept together we lost contact for a bit and he wouldnt answer his phone to me or anything, then a few weeks ago i bumped into him again and we got chatting again. I still really like ...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always plann...

We are drifting apart and I 'm worried she is losing interest. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Ive been with my g/f now for 6 months,the start of it was perfect i thought nothing could go wrong.4 months in the relationship it started to go wrong for some reason,i dont have an idea where things have gone wrong.she isn`t:spending as much time ...

Was he keeping her on the backburner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - last nite we were watching some parts of a movie( we are together for a year and a half) and it was about a guy and a girl who are just friends and obviously they wind up not being just friend---i casually say--guys and girls can't just be friends ...

I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My ex bf's mate has made it clear that he wants to be with me. I'm confused because I really liked him when I was still in the relationship with his mate, infact I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me. Now I'm really ...

Meeting with him again would be playing with fire

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up at the beginning of the year, after three years of being together. Things had been difficult for a while - there were various things about our lives we were not happy with, and our relationship suffered as a result. I ...

I no longer feel physically attracted to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, we met at university where we were studying for the same degree and we got together 6 months after my previous boyfriend and I split up after a four year relationship. When I graduated last y...

Well, I'm no saint

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Subject: Almost 20 years married, no sex for almost 8 - ready to finally leave. I never thought I'd be in this dilemma. I just hope this experience will help someone. I've been married to the sweetest and kindest woman I know for almost ...

Our relationship: In a rut. That's what I told her and now she's dumped my ass

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - My relationship with my g/f is in a bit of a rut and the other night i pointed this out to her. We love each other and I don't want a split but would love to make it work. Anyway, i was over critical of the relationship and of my g/f. She is very...

I don't think she's the one for me but don't want to hurt her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - I've been with my girlfiend for 2 1/2 years and she is by far the best friend i've ever had. However i don't have feelings for her the way I used to and don't think she's the one for me. What should I do? I still think she's totally in love with me....

It's been 23 yeras and I can't get over my first love! How do I stop these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - it's been 23yrs and I still feel I can't get over my First Love. We lost contact for many years but know we are in touch with each other. I do think I was his true love also. But how do I stop these feelings...

Unsure I love my wife, but I fancy a work colleague. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Have been married 11 years and have a son who is 9. I have recently been having feelings that I no longer love my wife or even find her attractive anymore. I have told my wife that I am unsure whether I love her or not and she pursuaded me to ...

How do I get over him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6572 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - This guy and I were together for 2 years but were talking for 5. And we broke up 7 months ago for complicated reasons, we still talk once in a while and he's been talking to another girl, but I still can't get over him. I've tried everything. I even ...

Obsessive Compulsive Love Disorder

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Is it obsessive to still love someone your were with for 4 years when you broke up 10 months ago, or is it a sign of true love? When does true love become obsession?...

My fiance cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I am actually asking for advice i found out that my fiance of 3 years is cheating,but the thing is he wont confess to me even though he knows that i know he really did it. One day he told me that he thinks i should leave him because he hurt me and ...

Trapped

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, things were great when we were first together, but recently I've been trying really hard to work and save money and do something big with my life. He doesnt have the same feelings, he ...

I still love my wife a lot--but am afraid to tell her in case she doesn't feel the same way! Help..any advice for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - I have been apart from my wife for 4 years. We even divorced becouse I thought it would help me "move on". We have two beautiful little girls together and have remained friends. I have had several relationships, but I still think about her every ...

Need advice on how to put my relationship back on the right track again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi I am in a relationship which is a very good and honest one. We both love eachother very much, I think. Everything has been wonderful since the day I got with him. We have had our fair share of arguments but have always managed to come through ...

He went away with his buddies and came back...acting cold toward me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, im 28,I need some advice, my boyfriend whos 27 ended our relationship just over a week ago and im totally devestated. We have known each other for years, and was going out for 3 months. He was totally smitten with me, told me he loved...

We've been together 9 years! He doesn't want a baby, he doesn't want to marry and he goes out till all hours of the night. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - i'm 40 years old. i have a bf and he's 35 we've lived together for over 9 years now. we both live in my parents house but my parents have moved to another village 5 years ago. now it's just me and him and his parents now living with us. he comes ...

My bf got diabetes and now he's depressed! I'm not sure if I should stick around or get on with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I'm 21 years old and i've been with the same guy since i was 16. Things were great at first then he became diabetic and life went downhill. He does't want to grow up and move out and now he does't work he works when he wants to and i work everyday. ...

Our relationship is more like a friendship. Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - One for the girls. As my other half isnt much interested in sex i now lost my sex drive and dont want to have sex at all with him when he does once in a blue moon. So many times I feel like leaving as i see that were more like good friends than ...

How can I break up with the boyfriend from HELL??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - eurgh cant break up with the boyfriend from hell!!! I really need help! im 16 and have never really had that much luck with boyfriends. My friends totaly over took me...im not repulsive or anyhting just a little picky and didnt want a boy-for-a-day ...

How do you deal with the fact that someone doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - Ok. So, how do you deal with the fact that someone doesn't love you anymore? I had never before been in love cause I never let anyone in (never wanted a broken heart, cause I am not that strong of a person). I finally let this guy in...and I love ...

Family divided, please help me. I feel like it is all my fault.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - My family has been torn apart and things get worse every day. I married a beautiful girl in 1998 and we had a daughter in 1999. We now have 3 children. Around this time, my sister (K) met her boyfriend (M). When they would argue, he would say things ...

He went of to uni and now has changed! I am afraid he might dump me..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Please some one help me i need some advice. I am sixteen years old and very mature for my age i also look alot older, i usually get mistaken for being about 19-22. i have a older boyfriend who is turning 20 on Monday, he has recently gone back to ...

Married with kids but not sure I love him... don't even want to hug or kiss him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I dont know if i love my husband anymore we have been married 7 years and have 2 children 1 age 4 and 1 age 3 I dont even want to kiss him or hug him but I am indecisive because this happens after a few years of being with someone and I dont want to ...

She used to initiate contact all the time but now has stopped! What has happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6616 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - I was seeing this girl in another city. We went out a few times and I though we both really liked each other. I know she felt something because I was not the one that always had to initiate things. She would reach out for me or kiss me just as I ...

Have I made the right decision in staying with my husband and remaining loyal? I cannot get my true love out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I have been married for 11 years to my husband N and have two kids aged 6 and 10. My husband and I had a communication breakdown some time ago and I felt very alone and isolated by him and our sex life was for some years practically non existant. ...

How do I regain the spark in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 October 2006 (F) - I have lost the spark in my relationship with my partner, How do get it back? how do i feel the passion and love for him i once had?...

How can I forget him and find someone who wants me for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 October 2006 (F) - I am 34 and met this guy over 2 years ago, and fell big time for him - everyine warned me whathe was like i.e. totally not looking for a relationship and would mess my head around with his mind games! now 2 years on, I have slept with him numerous ...

Love for my boyfriend is fading fast, please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 October 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now. I never had a boyfriend before starting a relationship with this particular man. Although I was happy to marry him within the first few months of dating, now I am petrified of that thought, scared to ...

I broke up with my boyfriend, but realise I made a mistake. Now he has a new gf and tells me to leave him alone. What can I do? I need him back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

8 October 2006 (F) - I made a horrible mistake and broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. We dated a little over 6 months.I got scared and overwhelmed by some things. I told him I just didn't feel anything anymore, but it was really because I was so stressed out. I ...

I feel as if im walking on broken egg shells

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

8 October 2006 (F) - Hi i am 29 years old,and have been in a relationship for the past 5 years,it hasnt been the best but i truly love my partner with every thing i am,but no matter what i do or say it seems not be any good i feel as if im walking on broken egg shells ...

Am i just complaining or is this normal?

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8 October 2006 (F) - I just moved in (visiting) my boyfriend who lives in country x. He moved here to work, and will be here for the next two years. We met in country y and we are both from different countries z and w. (sorry if this sounds too cryptic!) Now, I have a ...

I refused to get back together as friends with benefits

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

8 October 2006 (F) - I split up with my guy six months ago because he cheated on me. We've been in contact recently and I think he wants us to get back together. I told him that we have got to be exclusive. He said he didn't want a 'girlfriend' so I refused to get back ...

if he wants me to be a better in the bedroom, shouldn't he use not just the bedroom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - my partner says im no good in the bedroom but my reasons are as follows:-my partner stays in the bedroom all the time, yeh he goes to work when he feels and also to the toilet and the fridge to get a beer. apart from that hes in the bedroom....my ...

Will our rough patch pass with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - I think my 4 month relationship has grown stale. There's still the good bits that we had before when all i can think about is how much i love him and how i want to spent the rest of my life with him, but a lot of the time when i'm with him or ...

If she wants to see other people, why doesn't she just let me go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - Well my worst fears are realized. My girlfriend has been playing me all along. But even though I caught her in the lie, she won't admit it. I tried so hard to break it off cleanly, but her protests kept making me think that maybe I was wrong. ...

He says hes tired of being in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 13 months and we love each other to death .. but he broke up with me becasue he says hes tired of being in a relationship because of all the stress (which is not true because we rarely ever fight) and ...

i need to get over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Hi I am a normal fourteen year old, thing is i think im in love. I've known him [barney] for over a year now.. and we have always had a thing going on. From june to march we were together, and did most of the oral sex, but i was happy becaus...

How can I catch him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, Lately he's started to not accept any affection from me and he keeps buying me things.I only see him on weekends (i stay over, and he takes his calls and texts outside then deletes them !?!?!)I ring him...