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writes: Hi i am 29 years old,and have been in a relationship for the past 5 years,it hasnt been the best but i truly love my partner with every thing i am,but no matter what i do or say it seems not be any good i feel as if im walking on broken egg shells he is verry controling and brings me down alot im verry confused i also have 3 children and my partner has 3 children to a previous relationshp my partner never seems to listen to when im in need of a little support or loving everything has to be on his terms or not atall he spends most of his time with mates somtimes i dont hear from him for days at a time he can be so affectionate at times and makes me feel special but it dosent last long but it is thoose times i crave for my partner is 37 can any one help or have any sugestions Reply to this Question
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 My ex husband was very controlling but i decided i deserved better i left. i loved him more than life its self but i could not do control. but my circumstances were different i didnt have children.
your husband should be with you not going off with his mates for days at a time he should be their to support you and his kids not expecting you to do everything, marriage is a partnership that means two people giving each other support and loving, I suggest you try and talk to him explain how you feel (its not going to be easy for him to change) wishing you the best
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
I cant believe he puts you down a lot and is controlling you like this! I know you love him but please dont put upwith him putting you down hes doing this to make hius self esteem which is obviously very low, better. This guy is insecure for some reason of which im not sure maybe you might know? Has he tried to do something with no success, or lost something or someone? Guys only put themselves down to make themselves feel better. And he is being controlling due to his low self esteem does he tell you what to wear, what to do where to go etc? When people have low self esteem theres not much you can do but to try and let them know you love them and appreciate them maybe he doesent feel important? Talk to him thats all you can really do.
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