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writes: I made a horrible mistake and broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. We dated a little over 6 months.I got scared and overwhelmed by some things. I told him I just didn't feel anything anymore, but it was really because I was so stressed out. I miss him terribly. I was missing him last week and wanted to call and tell him I'm sorry. Then I found out that he has a g/f. He got a g/f not even a few weeks after we broke up. The thing is I know he loved me very much. So I know he just couldn't have moved on. When I tried to tell him the truth and how I felt he told me he wanted to come back but couldn't. Then He ended up getting frustrated and telling me to not talk to him anymore and leave him alone. He wants this girl that he met 2 weeks ago. A month ago he would have done anything for me. What can I do? I need him back. I love him sooo much. Do I need to leave him alone and wait for him?
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reader, Dudo  +, writes (2 March 2012):
Wake up gal, he has already started that relationship while you were still together and it was such a relief for him for you to let him free the way you just did, coz he didnt have the guts to leave you. Had he had love you the way you say, don't you think he would have wanted to sort things out first instead of falling into another womens arms? Let him go, he doesn't deserve you at all baby gal!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): I am sorry about you and your boyfriend. I have just broke up with my boyfriend two days ago who said he loved me only a day before. But he made me happy for a few week then everything started to change. When I am involved in an activity I feel ok, I feel better, and feel positive. But when I am alone I sometimes feel that I have made a mistake. But now I relieze I haven't. He is in the army, and being posted to Scotland very soon, and I am going to University within the next year. We wouldn't of worked anyway. If I didn't break up with him yesterday, I would of had to do it in the next year, which would of been worse for me. I am sorry for you, but it will get better, trust me. But its time to move on, he is moving on. I know for a while me and my ex will be hurt by all of this, but eventually he will move on, and you don't want to be left stuck do you? move on girl...if it makes you feel better, i am only 17 and have my whole life ahead. I will meet a whole load of people soon, and for now, I want to have some fun, then get down to relationships. But I am young and single, for any person that is good. Just wait a while, you will get over it. Trust me..it will get better. I already feel better and its been only a day ,.....xxxxxxx, tasha, England,
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): Hey the best thing you can do is give him some space to sort out his own feelings!! First you wanted to be with him and then you didn't and now you want him back again!! The guys pride & feelings have been hurt...
I'LL be honest - its gonna be hard on you at the start especially if you see him around the whole time!! The only thing to do is go out, enjoy yourself, get involved in other activities to keep yourself & your mind on other things but him!!
But don't ring or text him the whole time - he will feel like he's been stalked by you!! Change your image to make him notice you, get talking or even goin out with other guys, but don't do it in a "tarty slutty" way - it will put him & all guys off you!!!
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 Sorry to say that he's moved on, and you need to too. When he loved you very much and you said you didnt feel anything anymore he would have been very hurt in a way he thought you would never do to him. At the end of the day, what's done is done, and you just need to put this down to experience and give things more time before you make hasty decisions in the future.
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