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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I wait and see? Or end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - I met a guy through a friend and we've been seeing each other for over 2 months. In the beginning, everything was great. We went out on dates, talked on the phone, texted eachother often, and he was really sweet. We went away to Niagara falls for 2 ...

He said he feels we aren't a good match but he also said he can see us together for a long time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - I think some advice would be helpful so here I am. My boyfriend told me he doesn't want marriage and children but he also doesn't know for sure. He adds our personalities are very different and feels we aren't the best match (this kind of confused ...

Girlfriendwants to cut her hair in a style I don't want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Some background... I am dating an asexual girl. If you don't know what that means, she just isn't sexually attracted to anyone and therefore no sex. which I am fine with because we both love each other. With that in mind, however, I am much more ...

I love my girlfriend but not sure I love our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - I love my girlfriend but not sure I love our relationship. I think shes an amazing gal, and really enjoy the time we spend together. We've been together nearly 3 years, but live in different cities - enough to see for a quick evening or long ...

Should I just accept that my personality is a turn off to most people and give up on love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - Hey everyone. After some soul searching, research, and visits to my therapist, and continuing to end up more alone as time passes, and after facing constant rejection from women. I now realize why I alienate so many people. I haven't done it ...

Three dates in and she does't want to kiss!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - So I met a girl through Tinder and we went out for dinner. I'm 30 and she's 27. We hit it off really well. We talked for nearly 4 hours. She had a pretty bad cough though, and I didn't attempt any sort of physical contact except a brief touch of the ...

Could my body after weight loss be turning men off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - I'm a little worried about this. So, i used to be quite large, about 84 pounds overweight and lost most of my weight the last few years. I'm thin but not as toned and obviously have a little loose skin on my stomach in particular, especially the ...

Am I justified in feeling hurt or did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, Sorry for the long post, Thankyou to anyone who takes the time to read my story. I am in my late twenties and in a new relationship of 6 months with a man 2 years younger than me. He is the most amazing person I have ever met a...

He seemed so into me, said he had no wrong intentions... Then why did he ghost me after that evening of no sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I commute to work and every Friday, as I'm waiting at my bus stop, a young man would come and wait for the bus as well. We would exchange polite nods of the head, smiles, "good mornings" and then both of us would retreat back to our cell phones, ...

My boyfriend is always distracted when talking to me on the phone and it's getting on my nerves!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I'm confused. My understanding of being on the phone with someone is to have an active conversation. That each party should be holding on to the phone (or have on ear phones) and giving undivided attention to the person on the other line. Why is it ...

Should I have waited till he said “I love you”?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - I have been seeing my bf for 3 months now. I feel like everything is great. Iv been bursting to tell him i loved him, but wanted to wait until he said it first. The other day i just said it and he said it back. Now i worry that he doesnt actually...

He’s very affectionate towards everyone! Does this sound strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hi there I started seeing a guy around 3 months ago. One of the things i love about him.is that he is very very affectionate towards me. At gome and out in public. He sometimes says to be before we go out'can i kiss you a lot tonight in publi...

The thought of breaking up with my boyfriend is hard but I can't get the new girl out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hello! I have a sticky situation and need advice on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly two years, we have had plenty of ups and downs during this time. He has been steadfast through each fight, though, as have I, u...

He talks about money and costs a lot, is he testing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - I’m confused and would appreciate your help. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and our dates started with walking, coffee, one time out for drinks couple of lunches and most of the time at his place, either he is cooking or most of the time ...

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

I'm troubled. I love my boyfriend but am not in love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm in my early 20s and been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have an amazing relationship. We are best friends and do everything together. However recently I haven't been feeling the same, I've had this feeling at the back of my mind for the ...

My boyfriend says he will break up with me if I move 150 miles away

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

25 January 2018 (F) - Iv been dating my boyfriend for a year and i love him so much. But i want to move in with my friend who lives 150 miles away and my boyfriend says if i do he will split up with me and look for someone else. So now i feel trapped because i dont want ...

Was it wrong of me to intoduce him to my kids so soon?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - I started dating my ex husband when I was 15, he was the only guy I dated. We got married shortly after high school and had five kids together. I love him but neither of us were really in love with each other for years but we had kids and we were ...

How do I detach myself emotionally from him before actually telling him it's over if I decide I don't want this anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

24 January 2018 (M) - I've been with my boyfriend for five years. To be honest things haven't been right since the second year. I met my boyfriend on online dating. I was 22 and he was 25. We are now 27 and hes 30.At the time he told me he was in and out of a gardening ...

My boyfriend's mother is a little too involved in our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - Hey everyone wondering if anyone can offer some friendly advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half although we split in the summer for a couple months due to not getting on and silly little arguments. My boyfriend ...

I wanted our mutual breakup to end on a good note but it hasn't and I am not coping with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

24 January 2018 (M) - I was with my girlfriend since last two years, n we were good together. She always relied on me whenever she needed me even for d most small of her requirements but den few months back, according to our Hindu mythology we matched our stars or as we ...

How do you feel ok with being single at 30?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - How can you learn to be ok with being single at 30? I’m 30 and single, and I know I’m not the only one and that there are probably other single women out there my age or older. I’ve only had one relationship in my life that was “serious” (yr and a ...

Do I stay? I have a lot to consider! Any advice would be helpful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

23 January 2018 (M) - My problem is quite complex and works across a number of different levels and areaa. So i want to break it down and look at some of them piece by piece. The under pinning issue is that 18 months ago i moved from the UK to Norway (Oslo) to be with ...

Do I mean anything to him? Why is he with me if he doesn't see a future with us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - Some background: I (27 years old) have been seeing this man (33 years old) for four months now. We get along incredibly well and always have fun together. It is very comfortable when we are around each other and we naturally give off an impressi...

Should I try online dating to get dating experience or is it better for me to continue waiting to find the right guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - I am 22 and never had a boyfriend before. Sometimes I get really sad and depressed, especially when I see women on social media with their bfs and dating while I am always alone and single. I don't really receive a lot of male attention/intere...

A guy I was dating said how hot my sister was, and I dumped him the same night! Am I overreacting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - Hey, everyone. So I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have been on 3 dates total. I enjoyed my time with him and he's quirky in the way that he thinks and he can come off like an ass, not in a malicious way, but it intrigues me and he has treated me ...

Why does my partner bring up my ex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

19 January 2018 (M) - Why does my partner bring up my ex? This will happen if she wishes to upset me in an arguement or even from right out of nowhere; which can be particularly problematic. I have told my partner that I really dont want to talk about her. I have reas...

I'm in the relationship because of obligation and chivalry. Should I give her another chance or end it for good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

19 January 2018 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend on and off for over 3 years. In the beginning she was a work colleague I was hesitant to get with her as although we flirted, played about together and eventually slept together, I wasn't looking for commitment. ...

So Do I go to what broke me who I love or the new guy who has fallen for me completely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Never felt so confused in my life .. Where to begin .. I was with a guy for two years, absolutely head over heels we was very happy but our issues from past relationships soon cropped up, no excuse but this guy began messaging a lot of girls r...

Is "I don't have a boyfriend" an invitation to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

18 January 2018 (M) - Is "I don't have a boyfriend" an invitation to ask her out? Basically there's this girl I really like since a couple of years but I but never asked her out because I was unemployed and didn't have a car or a place of my own. Now that I'm better off, ...

Is he interested or just being casual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2536 days ago

18 January 2018 (F) - If a man has made it clear he really likes you, but is also aware you've had a very prolonged period of really awful stuff happening, none of which was your fault, would it make sense that he would show interest in meeting up with you socially - if ...

I got cold feet and let him get away. I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

18 January 2018 (F) - Dear Aunts. I need serious advice here. I never get cold feet around people but with this one guy I just get weak on my knees. I don't know what to do. I managed to get his number and told him through WhatsApp that I have feelings then stopped ...

My ex treated me badly, now I don't have the confidence to date again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I don't think I'm still fully over what happened with my ex/ex friend and it still affects potential dating. It's been over a year now since I last saw him. We started out as friends, then it became more, but he wasn't treating me well so I ended ...

Apart from these issues my boyfriend is great.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. We get along really well. He use to be a well known player in our town. The sex is alright. He likes it better than me. Hence the fact I've had better lovers. The two issues I'm having are this: ...

Why did he block me? Was it because I didn’t have sex with him?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - Hey guys.. I randomly met this guy last week and as soon as I saw him, I liked him. He seemed shy and I could tell he was into me but I knew he wouldn't ask me out, so I did. He took my number and he asked me to dinner on Saturday. Well he knew how ...

How do I stop feeling jealous and insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

16 January 2018 (M) - Dear aunts, How do I stop feeling insecure and jealous? I have a girlfriend who is very friendly and extroverted, she has a lot of friends that are both male and female. We've been together for 3 months but known each other for about 2 years.I ...

Why am I still tempted by my ex that didn't treat me well when I have a great guy in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

16 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I have been broken up with my ex for 1.5 years now. While we are mostly "off" there have been a few instances where we talk, get caught up on our lives and sometimes hook up. We both know it's not going to work out but he'll say things like ...

My girlfriend wants to do a boudoir photo shoot, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

14 January 2018 (M) - First of all, this is the first time I'm posting stuff like this on the internet, so excuse whatever mistakes I make, but I have literally nobody else to give me a single different perspective on this matter. Here goes: I've been with this girl o...

I want marriage and children, is he wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

14 January 2018 (F) - So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about five years we both have crazy work schedules so I suggested that we get a place together somewhere located centrally Between both of our apartments.In my mind it’s the perfect solution so we can spend more ...

I just want some to love ... who will love me back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

14 January 2018 (F) - Hello aunts What does someone do when they can’t find love? I want to give a background ( been in two relationships) long term( both same type of guys) negligent - over powering - verbally absuive - and non emphatic . Learned my lesson that I ne...

I'm concerned that my boyfriend may expect the same kind of commitment from me that his ex wife gave to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2541 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - My bf (he's 51 and I'm 43) has been divorced for almost two years now (separated for longer than that). He's on good terms with his ex and they coparent well their two children (15 and 18). We're taking things slow and he seems like a great guy...

To love, or not to love, that is the question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

12 January 2018 (M) - I really don't know how to put this out there, I normally like to keep things pretty private, it's simpler that way. I am interested in dating again after many years of being alone. I meet women all the time, lovely women, but there are some t...

My boyfriend is travelling with another woman and told me not to call him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

11 January 2018 (F) - My bf told me to stop texting him for 2 weeks. I am on my 8 days of no contact it's really hard specially I am seeing him online all the time. We've been together for 7 years. But recently for the past 2 years we do not see each other in person due ...

I want to ensure my well being through this process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Seeing this guy who is older than I am. Very casual and open at first. It's been about three or four months and we both are kind of surprised we are still seeing each other, and that the relationship is progressing. I stay over a lot, we have the ...

I feel stuck,I know I love him but don't know if I can trust him.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - I’ll spare the gory details, but I dated this guy for about 9 months (September ‘16 - Jun ‘17). It was the happiest relationship of my life. I was the first to say I love you (which I’ve never done before) about 6 months in; he said it, then took it ...

I caught my partner out in a lie, what is he hiding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - I have a partner, we do not live together but have been together for 5 years, we are what I call companions, i stay at his and he stays at mine, we also like time alone. He has female friends not a problem but this one friend he told me was ill, he ...

My gf wants to learn salsa dance and I hate it. How to say no

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

9 January 2018 (M) - Hi. I've been in a relationship with my gf for about 2 years now. I'm planning to propose soon but there's is something thas is making me reevaluate my relationship. I took her once to a latin club where salsa music is played and she absolute...

My girlfriend doest take care of herself and has no ambition

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

8 January 2018 (M) - Is it me? Is it her? Are we fizzling. I feel like my gf of 4 yrs doesn't make effort. Everytime we are going out we isn't putting effort in. I don't mind until I realised its everyday. In my family my mum and sisters always make sure they presen...

Feel as though needs arn't being met in relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

8 January 2018 (F) - I need advice about my current relationship. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we currently live together, but we were really good friends 3 years before we started dating. The past few months I’ve felt as though my boyfrien...

I feel like the third wheel around my boyfriend and my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

8 January 2018 (M) - Hey all, I'm just looking for some advice on how to get a grip of my jealously and paranoia. My boyfriend and I have been official for two months now, when we started to date each other over the summer and at the beginning of our relationship we ...