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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

What do I say? When he asks me why I like him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I am 26 years old and I have always been a little socially awkward and reserved!i met this guy that I really like and care about a lot but let's just say I am unable to express that to him,he asked me why do I like him so much and I have no ...

Can we make this work? Is it a healthy or a toxic relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - This relationship has me so confused that I can no longer think straight as the reality of what’s going on. I met my boyfriend about 3 years ago on an online dating website. We are both in our mid 20’s. We met each other after a week and he moved in ...

I'm ten weeks pregnant and now my Bf tells me he ''isn't sure'' about our relationship. How do I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has just told me he doesn't know if he loves me or wants to be with me. We have always known that we need to make more effort with each other, however which his lazy attitude he just never has. So I ...

Am I doing the right thing by moving to live with him in his home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm 33, boyfriend is 30 and I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 6 months. We spend the weekends together. The travel has become quite difficult and we would like to move the relationship forward and test we work...

Why do I put up with this? We both like jazz. But why do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, here's my dumb question. I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. In that time we have had our ups and downs. I have never asked him for sexual fidelity, which means that he is pretty open with me and doesn't feel like he ...

I feel like giving up on dating. Is it me? No one seems to want to be in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hello. I had been seeing this guy recently (about 5months) and things were going pretty well then out of the blue he began acting strange and distant. I asked him why and a first he said he was fine and later said that he thought I was going to ask ...

Why did he disappear when I expressed interest in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - So I was talking to this guy that I met.We haven't spend time in person yet but we coommunicate regulary.He brought up sex the first time we spoke .Last time he wanted to come over at my apartment but I told him that I'm not comfotable inviting him ...

How much do you have in common with your husband/fiancé/boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - When I started dating my fiancé he told me all about the activities he did with his last girlfriend, such as them jogging together, bicycling and going to a concert. He told me the concert turned into a magical night for the both of them. The ...

His ex was a slim red-head. Am I being silly by making the connection between his ex and what he's been preferring to watch via porn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend and I watch porn during sex. My boyfriend doesn't have a particular type... blonde/ chubby / tattooed/whatever - he really has a broad taste but I know he prefers curvier brunette girls. However recently he's been lookin...

Should I be this worried about how success may change him and us and our future ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hi, i have a serious problem, that has been bothering me for a long time now. My fiance and i are super close and always have been since we met. One of the most beautiful things that i have found about us, is the simplicity and groundedness o...

Help ! Should we get back together? Did he really cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - First off people of the internet, I apologize for the really long post I really just want you all to fully understand the situation (: So.. I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend because my friend told me she saw him grinding with another gir...

The man that I am dating doesn't know how to tell his lady friend about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunties and uncles I posted on here in June about a man I have been seeing: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-it-is-worth-me-continuing.html I am 55 and 4 months ago I met a man who is 60. 8 months before we met he had me...

I'm incredibly attracted to him but not ready to have sex after only one month and 4 dates!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - I have been dating a guy for almost a month. We met on a popular dating app and hit it off immediately on our first date. We talked for hours and ended up having to be told to leave the restaurant because they were closing. He took me out for dinner ...

My boyfriend just told me he would not be able to resist really good looking women ....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I were discussing our plans to go travelling overseas, where he told me we would need to stay away from certain countries where there are "extremely good looking women" because he wouldn't be able to control himself. He ...

He felt me pulling away so he lied to me about where he was!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm newly divorced and have been dating a man for 9'months. He has been separated from his wife for 6 years, filed for divorce 4 years ago and the lawyers still have not reached an agreement. I was initially worried dating him since hi...

Is it weird that I'm not interested in dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I guess I don't quite know how to put this in the form of a question. Basically I'm just curious if it's really so bad to not have an interest in dating? I have told myself that I'm most likely asexual although I'm attracted to men, j...

This other guy is much nicer than my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and I must say we do have our ups and downs. He has a bit of a temper and a bit touchy and get angry a lot. There's also this guy that is totally opposite to my bf. He's sweet, kind...

Am I being controlling to my boyfriend? How do we work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I started dating a guy from work and as we were getting to know each other I learnt that he takes cocaine on the occasional night out and smokes a lot of weed. He is also a regular smoker, but I knew this all along. In the early stages I made it...

I feel like he just charmed me to get me to the bed and now that it's over, he's withdrawing himself. I feel disrespected, humiliated, hurt and betrayed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I've been dating this guy for the past three weeks. He seemed to be a nice, caring and romantic person who made me feel special and showered me with attention. Now, we've entered a relationship since the last 15 days (the guy himself brought this ...

Dating, for me, is so difficult emotionally, but I so badly want a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I am a pretty quite person, so when someone makes an effort to get to know me, I become flattered that they would even bother. When a guy approaches me, talks to me, texts me, flirts, I go head over heels. I feel special, I want to make him feel...

He has a family but acts like he is still single!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hi hope someone can help me I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a 1 year old daughter together we have a pretty good rrelationship but the problem is I still feel like he thinks he is single he is always out with his mates we never get ...

I realize we aren't compatible but feel obligated to stay with her. What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - Dear everyone I started to date a girl about 6 months ago and we started a relationship. We both knew it would become long distance but we both accepted it and said we'd give it a go, but we both understood they often don't work out. we accepted...

Should I cut contact with my ex? I'm worried about my new boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - I've met and am in a new relationship with the most amazing, incredible man I have ever known. We both make each other very happy indeed and already have very strong feelings for one another. I feel very relaxed and comfortable around him and he is ...

How do I approach the subject of looking after my sisters to my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Since I was 19 I have been the sole guardian for my younger sisters due to our mother passing away and their father is no longer around. They were 4 and 8 at the time of her death and wanted to stay with me in our family home and our relatives ...

What can I do? I'm bored with the lifestyle my boyfriend wants to live

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hi there :) So I've been with my boyfriend for over five years, half of which time he was in the military and we had a long distanced relationship. We both worked hard on our relationship, spending time together when he was home, and our plan was ...

Am I going crazy? Or is he being overly possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Here's a background on my relationship: I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. Currently we are having a long distance relationship (it has been ongoing for half a year and I have made plans to move over to his coun...

I lack the confidence to ask someone out. What needs to change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - I'm a 19 year old man and have been stuck in limbo for the last 10 months, just over a year ago I met a girl who came over to the UK to learn English. She was only staying for 6 months and I was teaching her how to work in my old job (waiter/...

How can I stop myself from sharing cropped nude pictures of my girlfriend online with other guys? It gives me a thrill even though it's wrong

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

25 September 2015 (M) - Hi friends.. I have been Sharing nude pictures of my girlfriend but before that cropping the head of the picture and then share with other guys on an anonymous social networking website it turns me on when i share it.. I then wank over it.. Im ...

Is it possible that she really does love me? Despite the fact that I was a jerk earlier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

25 September 2015 (M) - I dated this girl for about 3 months in the summer. Extenuating circumstances happened that basically necessitated that we break up. Except things were really good, like we were totally right for each other. So she was reticent, and fought me on it. ...

I love my boyfriend but can't stand him being abusive to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - Hello guyz,have been dating this guy for a month now. He is so sweet,kind but a lil selfish. The problem is that he drinks too much and everything . He was drunk the other night and was verbal abusive,he said a lot of things and call me so many ...

How do I get over the hurt and betrayal that my "friend" was dating the guy I liked behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - My friend tricked me into believing she wasn't seeing the guy I fancied. How do I get over this betrayal? Me and this girl were friends for a couple of years - I didn't know her that long - but long enough to be close friends. She knew I was keen...

Boyfriend's brothers are at our place way too often and I don't know how much more I can take!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - My bf and I moved in together about 2 months now. My bf works full time but he has been trying to start a company with his brothers, and he works on this in all of his spare time. Which means, there is very little time for me - I can't recall the ...

I tricked my boyfriend because I wanted to know if I could trust him and he failed!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - i made a fake profile to test if i can trust my boyfriend, i added and chat with him and ask if he had a girlfriend and he says yes, but the next day i ask him to meet up at a private place and he agrees. after i confronted him he said he's sorry ...

I'm 30 and still not married, I'm starting to feel anxious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - I am a 30 yr old woman who is not married and I'm staring to get a little anxious. I have had 3 serious relationships in my life and without going into detail, they just didn't work out. I have now been single for a little over a year. I know...

One date, one week later and haven't heard anything. Did I ruin things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - So here's how the story goes I met a guy recently who happens to be a pro athlete. We were friends via social media after a mutual friend suggested we follow each other. One year later he liked some of my posts and I reached out. Since then we'...

Dating and men that don't disclose that they are still involved with someone. Anyone else have this problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - I'm a single mother. I don't have a problem with being single. I get asked out plenty. My concern lies with the men that do ask me out. Lately, I've been getting asked out by men who are father's. That's fine but quite a few I can't say for sure ...

I love him but he's rich, how do I present my family to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - i am 18 year old girl i came from an humble family my parents are both traders and they sponsored me through out my secondary schools So I'm privileged to go to one big university in my country then i met a guy who really loves me but am afraid to ...

How am I supposed to continue into the future with someone as spiteful as she has been towards me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I've been dating this girl on and off for a little over three years and I just recently found out that whilst we weren't together for a short period of time, she had sex with a guy that was clearly my enemy, but she didn't come clean about it until ...

How long to wait to have sex with a new partner? Do I have to tell him how bad my sexual experience was with my first boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - I'm dating a guy who is 7 yrs older than I am which is fine as I really like him, however I'm the younger one at aged 22 years. We haven't spoken about our past yet with regards to my past boyfriends. I had a really bad time with my first boyfrie...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

Is it wrong? Fling with Ex girlfriend's mum and she wants more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I recently had a fling with my ex-girlfriends' Mum and she wants to see me on a regular basis. Is it wrong? We're both single... I'm 24 and she's 41 and divorced. I went out with my ex-girlfriend for just over a year and during that time I a...

How do I show my boyfriend my way is the best option? I want to clear my debts before we live together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - hi everyone. no 'attacking' please . ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have discussed future plans what we both want i already have a teen son and my boyf has no kids . at the beginning i was all up for having another baby but...

Should I have a baby with him? He's married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I am a 38 year old lady who has been in an unhappy long distance relationship in another city(away from home) for 7years with no assurance from my man that he will marry me any time soon. At the beginning of this year i met a guy same age as me wh...

He cheated. Now he's devastated I'm leaving. Do I give him another chance or give up ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I just spent the last few months getting my 25 year-old live-in boyfriend of nine years to confess that he cheated sometime last year. We'd had a great relationship other than this. I knew that he'd attempted to cheat at ...

Fiance wants to leave for a 3-month internship. How do I tell her I can't do a 3 month LDR ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

23 September 2015 (M) - My fiancé is planning on leaving for a 3-month internship next summer. We are both almost 25 years old, I am a real-estate developer and she is working towards her PhD in computer science. We have been living together now for several months, and we ...

Is it his ex he wants or me? He does treat me well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Ive been with my partner for over a year now hes lovely with me treats me is nice to me compliments me..and we are moving in togerher the only thing is he has a nasty ex...who has stopped him seeing his daughter....I recently found browser history ...

My now ex Bf goes missing in action, but is furious if I don't pick up the phone. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - My Now ex boyfriend of 2 and a half years gets really annoyed with me if I don't answer my phone or text back or call back quickly. He always said "keep me updated". He made it clear how he feels and I honor this request as best I can. He has had ...

He talks about getting me pregnant, but is it just all talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hi,(long story) im 23 and my guy is 19 yrs older. He uses the pull-out method. A few times he's came inside me. He askes about when im gonna have his baby. He says i hope you're ready to have a baby. But sometimes he says you better not get preg...

Is it a lost cause to be looking for a man who, within a relationship, does not lust after other women ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I'm growing increasingly tired of men thinking they can lust after other women with no consequences. Like us ladies don't notice or we are just supposed to accept it as "men being men". Are there any men out there who genuinely disagree with looking ...

It feels like he's distancing himself from me. How can I improve my relationship with my bf who has PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has PTSD from the war and he is hard to deal with. He gets mad at dumb things and always thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not I'm just chill or quiet or relaxing or thinking. If I talk too much he gets irrational especially in fr...