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writes:I'm a single mother. I don't have a problem with being single. I get asked out plenty. My concern lies with the men that do ask me out. Lately, I've been getting asked out by men who are father's. That's fine but quite a few I can't say for sure whether or not they are still with the mother's of their children. They don't say when I mention it and it really annoys me. So I remain single and focused on my child. Does this happen to anyone else? Any insight? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2015): It is really disgusting. I just find it odd that I'm exactly what they're cheating on. Im no different than their current partner in any aspect. These are men that I have known for years. A couple that I've seen around but have never interacted with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2015): When you ask if they are single then they should answer you. If they choose not to answer let them no that sorry, you will not entertain someone who does not know whether he is single or not and walk out.
Someone who is genuinely single wouldn't hesitate to say it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 September 2015):
 I don't think it's too uncommon, unfortunately for people (not just men) to try and get a little "something" on the side, thus not telling you that they actually aren't single.
I would (when meeting someone) take it very slow till you are sure they are actually single. Which means no sex till you know. And no introduction to your child for a good 9-12 months of ACTUAL dating.
It's pretty despicable to ask someone out and pretend to be single and any guy who does that I'd cut off like the dead-weight he is.
Do you met these people in person or through dating sites?
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