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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is she just wanting to take it slowly? Am I completely missing her signals? What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Just been out on a 2nd date with a girl I'm interested in. We met online so this was literally the second time we've met. Much like the first date conversation was free and easy. We laughed and joked a lot and seemed to be enjoying each others ...

Second chance..do I deserve it with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - When i was 14 i was really close with this guy, we were so close for about 1 and a half years, then he asked me out. He would have been my first ever boyfriend but because of that i freaked out and said no. After that for a while it was awkward ...

Should I leave him and look for someone who puts in more effort?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? He has great wonderful qualities, and I do love him, but I feel like he doesn't put a lot of effort into our relationship. I don't know if my expectations are too high, but are there guys out there who really ...

How can I drop hints to let her know that I like her and how can I prepare for possibly asking her out in September?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she...

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy ...

Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - A general question, for everyone out there. Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS? I'm meet these lovely, kind, hard-working and attractive men, who have similar interests as me and whom I can really talk to, but I'm just...

Questions regarding a threesome...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...

Boyfriend wants to know WHY exactly do I love him! What do I say?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have not been dating my boyfriend a long time but I have fallen in love with him. I told he recently. We have a strong connection and chemistry since the day we met. He means so much to me and I dont think he understands. Im thankful for the day ...

First time kiss, what should I do when it happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I'm going to see a movie with my boyfriend tomorrow and I'm kinda worrying that he's gonna kiss me, well, because this will be my first kiss :/ I'm nervous just thinking about it, what should I do? I want to kiss him, but I just want to mak...

Will going on the pill mean I will put on weight? Or should I see a gynacologist instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we'v...

How to make tossing off a boy special

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have decided to wait a couple of months till sex, but we are doing other things, i want to make tossing him off extra special or nice for him, any good tips or tricks that they like? ...

B/f has no understanding of my feelings! I don't want to be with a man like that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much and i know that he loves me too with all his heart but my problem is he cant understand me! my feelings(emotional),why i sometimes cry w/out reason,when i say nothing,when I'm in silence..everything! he cant understand ...

Is he a player? Does he love me? Or is it all just a joke?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Okay, well i have Question .. There is this guy i met, and im not shure if he likes mee .. On his facebook it says he is in a relationship, and there is this girl that writes on his wall, ' i love you ' . and he said it back, and then when i ...

Does the guy I have feelings for really like me, or should I just go date the other guy who I like less but for sure likes me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi, please can you give me your opinions on this situation. I met a guy in March this year. We started seeing each other or so I thought. I asked him after 8 weeks how he felt about me. He said it was just sex so I broke contact with him and told ...

Friend's brother is ignoring me because I like him and there is an age difference between us. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have a really close friend , She is perhaps one of my best friends. But every time I'm with her i think of her brother.He's the problem. She has no problem at all with me liking him well except she calls it gross and you know the family thing. We ...

If I tell him how I feel, will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - So, this guy and I have been texting for about...a year now. He goes to my school, and is a few months older than me. He's in a younger grade (only because I went to school early.) Anyways, a few months after we started texting last year he admitted ...

Ex and I slept together, but I feel insecure because she's blonder, and smarter than I am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago and I still can't get over it, we dated for two years, I was twenty and he was thirty-two, first my family was against it because of the age difference, they said he was just using me but that ...

Can two shy people date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I met a great guy last summer and then I went off to college. I had feelings for him but never mentioned a thing. This summer, we've been hanging out but never one on one..his friend is always around. He is mostly reserved, not shy. He talks ...

8 months, when do I take it to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for 8 months and I'm wondering when to take it to the next level? We're young, I'm 19 and he's 20 but he recently suggested the idea of us moving in together. I would love to and told him so. I wouldn't move in ...

Should I just try to accept this quirk of his?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a thoughtful, sweet guy, but tends to be socially awkward. He's an opinionated guy, and can get a bit pushy when he gets going on a topic he cares about. I've told him that he can come across as aggressive, but he says that it's j...

Is it time to break up with my girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Ok so i have been with my girlfriend for a year and 5 months and she lives with me. The thing is I'm not sure if im still in love with her or I'm just used to her. I don't know what to do. It seems like were always arguing about little things ...

How can I trust me feelings for the guy that left me and our child high and dry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfiend can not do anything to help my son and I. I love him for no reason,but he always tell me that he is not a jerk because he left me for 18 months and come back to me now. I do not take it as worthy just for coming back to me,but he think ...

Can guys really just be friends with girls, even when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I imagine the question is relative to every guy, so I would like your own personal opinion, plus your opinion on what this guy's true intentions are. Of course, I know they can't be accurate as you don't know him personally and truthfully, but any ...

Is it possible that he likes me but is bothered by the age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have an attractive, single friend (we worked together last summer and have kept in touch) who I get on with like a house on fire. I'm pretty smitten and I get the vibe that he's attracted to me too. Only problem is I'm 23 and he's 38, and we're ...

My boyfriend's sister is acting all jealous of him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriends sister has just started acting weird. When i first started dating him she wasn't that jealous of him spending time with me. Now that my boyfriend trys to see me 2 times a week she doesnt like to be around me and i told my boyfriend of ...

Daughter takes back abusive BF - Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I have twin 21 yr old children, Jordan and Jessica. Jordan has been friends with "Luke" since they were kids. I always liked "Luke", he seemed like a good kid. lasy year he started dating my daughter and I was fine with it, until I seen how this ...

Analysis of personality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi, What would you make of someone with this past... as a child.. stole from other kids stole from parents at one stage stole from shops regularly disruptive at school sexually aware from a very young age, messing around with girls from arou...

GF can't make up mind where to live. Now she is moving in with this flirt who won't keep his hands off of her. Should I be done here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Are we done here? For the past couple of months my gf's living arrangements have been changing. She needs a place to live and wants to move in with me. I am not ready for this kind of commitment and I feel pressured. She has friends that I l...

Looks or personality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hello, would you say looks is more important than personality? I have had this boy who has been asking me out for the last week or so, i didnt no what to say because to me he is not very good looking at all, and looks realy matters to me! But his ...

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while ...

Why do more white women than white men date outside of their race?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (?) - This is just a simple question, not one with a lot details or anything. I was just wondering what people thought...um...why is it that there are more white women to date outside their race, then there are white men? I know this can be a ...

He is in a serious relationship, how can I get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey guys there is this guy we had sth as in it was really special then we separated because he has a girl who he has a serious relationship with and she just came to town. Now they are always together, though I have avoided ever seeing them together ...

I can't figure out my own feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - So... how do I make this simple..... ok, thing is, I really don't know what I'm thinking about her! I'll just start of with how it started: I'm in second year of college and we've been classmates since first semester and then around the second w...

Do I follow the advice of others or listen to my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - There is this guy that I like a lot and certain people around me keep trying to convince me that he is not the guy for me, for instance they brought up an issue about his personality being different than mine because he parties frequently and I ...

I can't fully get over an ex before I get involved with someone new. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I've had 3 serious relationships in my young life. Each time these relationships have ended I have been devastated. I put a lot of effort and energy in to making relationships work and when they don't work out I feel like I've failed. But I don't ...

I don't know if I should get back with him, but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - me and my ex boyfriend are friend because I break up with him 2 days ago because he been making me cry and making me sad even being a jerk to me. We have been txting since we break up like we did, when we was dating but I find it hard because I ...

How do I get with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - A few months ago i met this guy, and we became friends straight away, i knew straight away that i liked him as more than a friend but he was going out with someone at the time. But a few weeks after meeting him he split up with his girfriend. It h...

I like my male friend's brother, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I'm in dire need of advice. This is my first time on one of these advice sites, so here goes. I'm in love with my good friend's brother. Everything about him makes me smile, and all his quirks I find rather adorable. He can play gorgeous p...

He thought he had found proof that I was bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (?) - My fiance asked if he could play with my ipod at work (he likes this bird game and scrabble lol) I told him it was fine with me,he took it to work and then 5 hrs later He is saying "we need to talk" I texted him "why?" and he told me he found a half ...

I don't want to like big women anymore!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Okay people, I have a serious problem, I like bigger girls, like huge girls, and even making them gain weight for my pleasure, for some reason I find them highly attractive, but I don't like this attraction, I am also afraid my family would ridicule ...

I cant get girls to like me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Hear I am, 21 years old guy, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, don't even know if I know how to kiss.. the reason is that I have that mentality that girls don't dig me, u see I get that idea of approaching girls and stuff (pick on her try to ...

I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having ...

I used to think he loved me, flaws and all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: 2 Questions from same asker combined. Question for men. If you are watching a movie and a nude woman is in the scene, does it turn you on? what does it make you feel or think? Truthfully, I never thought too much about this befo...

He likes her but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and we talked about getting engaged and married and stuff like that. Well we also had this mutal friend that was single so i decided to hooked him up with a girl i knew since i ...

Why did he have to push me away while filling out his personal details in the form?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Today I went shopping with the guy that I have been seeing. We were at a department store where if you apply for their credit card, you get 15% discount on your purchases. So he applied for the card. But 2 things stood out to me. First, he's a ...

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. ...

Is it safe? Or am I getting paranoid about accidently getting pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so two of the guys I've slept with can't figure out why I have to jump up and stop them before they put their fingers inside me after they just came and, long story short, got a little bit or even a lot of come on their hands. And if I was blow...

I feel I should also sleep with someone else while I'm single to get this out of my system.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Im a in a real bad moral situation that i cannot seem to make a decision on. I had a 5 year relationship with a girl who i love dearly. We started growing distant and she broke up with me on the day my dog died. It was a real heartache and i asked ...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

When does a guy know that he wants to marry a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Background: He and I have been together for a little over a year. I now believe that he is the one I want to marry and spend the rest of our lives together. I have enough reasons to believe this. The thing is, we have not seriously di...