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Archived questions from: 13 June, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I being too needy? Seems I initiate everything. He cancels dates. It unsettles me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we have just became a couple. It wasn't discussed we just have such a connection. Which is what drew him to approach me in the first place. He has 3 kids and a ex and its recent. Hes writing a book and ...

How do I start up a conversation to get to know her better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - okay, so I've been single for about a month now, and I've met this girl, that, according to my friends is interested in me. Is it true that when a girl touches your arm she likes you? We've also danced rather, how should I put this... passionately? ...

Is a total reboot like this and a reframing of myself in her life a good plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - After she showed lots of clear interest in me over a month +, a girl friend zoned me because I was always available to her as a pushover online and never flirted physically in person or pushed a relationship. We had a disagreement over this, but I ...

Have I ruined things and does she want nothing to do with me or is she also playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - Over the holidays I became closer to a girl at school who is in a couple of my classes but apart from that I have never really talked to her. I had suspicions that she liked me as I would often catch her glancing over at me then when I turned round ...

She promised we would always work things out but then she broke up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - Now where do I start? Just under a year ago while attending one of my classes at university I met the girl of my dreams. I mean she was smart, pretty, nice, and caring, she was literally everything I could ever ask for in a partner. On the day I ...

Don't know which one to choose

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (?) - Hey, well I've just had a date with this girl and we like each other and have a fair bit in common and she lives in the same town as me, but I've also had a few dates with another girl and we like each other as well and have a few things in common ...

I feel as though I'm not good enough for him, should I try changing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I've not felt like this for a while but I'm starting to think I'm not good enough. My boyfriend reassures me that I am however there's something in the back of my mind that's screaming 'you're not his type'. Do people really have a type? and if so ...

I didn't realize we were having company? Where are you going?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Say your gf/bf was hanging out with you all day until you have to go to work. Then all of a sudden, their friends show up to get them. There was no talk of the friends coming by or that they were leaving with them. How would you feel? How should you ...

Should I ask, or just let it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now, and two months ago he asked for a 'break' which lasted only a few days. I don't believe in breaks but didn't get the chance to tell him at the time, and didn't think I needed to, since it ...

I feel like I'm trapped in a mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm trapped. I met a man(call him x) through mutual friends. He was head over heels for my other female friend(call her y). That night she kept giving him grief though and even started yelling about a hook-up that happened with another ...

He won't meet me unless he has a friend with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Why does this guy want to bring a friend along when we meet ?. He wont meet me unless a friend goes with him. Do you think he wants them there as a bit of support, possibly because he is nervous, or do you think he just isn't interested in dating me ...

He moved on to other girls after he kissed me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - My friend's a flirt. I like him and I hooked up with him. Sort of, anyway. We were just kissing and grinding; no making out. I pulled away when he tried and walked away. He was completely sober by the way and after I left the party, he kept hitti...

Is it too early to be discussing engagement/ marriage after only two months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now. We are in love with each other and he has already mentioned engagement and marriage. I believe that it is too early to discuss them, but on the other hand, it expresses how we feel for each ...

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I'd like to know, why I am single, and how important is body image? I'm a university educated, career-focused, independent, woman- who has nothing but horrific relationships with men. I think my problem is, firstly because men are not attracted to...

I don't know how to talk to girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - My problem is that i do not know how to talk to girls at all. I recently came out of my first relationship that was 3 years. This relationship was pretty bad as my ex would not allow me to talk with other girls and being young and stupid i went alo...

How should I go about our "relationship" now, as clearly my flirting was misinterpreted...

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13 June 2011 (M) - So theres this girl at work that I really like. The signs were there, she smiled when I was around, laughed at my jokes and when I teased her, gave me random hugs sometimes, texts me a lot, even her friends said we were 'cute' together, everything ...

I didn't see my colleague on her birthday, but I will, later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - I work with a girl who's birthday was a few days ago. I didn't see her on her birthday, but will later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card? She's around 7 years younger than me (I'm 27). Whilst I don't really have a cr...

I'm the complete opposite of my new boyfriends ex and I feel like I'm always being compared to her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Ive become very paranoid. Basically I'm the complete opposite of my new boyfriends ex. I'm only his second serious relationship so I feel like I'm always being compared to her. She's blonde and wears a lot of makeup whereas I have reddish brown ha...

I don't know if I am doing something wrong, but I just can't seem to get a guy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I am a 20 year old girl, and I'm at a loss as to how I can meet guys. I don't know if I am doing something wrong, but I just can't seem to get a guy. I'm not one of those people who is totally against going out to pubs, clubs, etc. However,...

Questions about hook-ups and dating......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Girls, how often do you have a hook up? It's hard being single and not getting affection, I haven't been in a relationship for about 3 years now and within these 3 years ive hooked up about every 3-4 months, i feel really guilty afterward, feeling ...

How do I know if a girl is bi like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I sometimes think about being with another female, Like on a porno, or a nude magazine, I focus on the girls then i do the guys. I have had these feelings for several years now. I even had a chance to be with a few girls but was shy about it and ...

Meeting face to face for the first time......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - A person who I've been dating for a while, webcammed etc with is planning to finally come visit me for the first time. She's coming to Texas and we're trying to figure out how this will work. I am a lesbian and my mother doesn't approve but I ...

Why didn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I met this guy earlier tonight, and we were having a nice time watching TV and we held hands, not sure if we were attracted to each other and then we moved to the bedroom and started foreplay which was okay, and then he stopped and said "sorry, ...

Girlfriend claims she got an STD from a towel or mat from her yoga class!! Is that really possible or is it more likely that she cheated on me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend had a vaginal discharge for some time which worried her greatly. She was worried she had some sort of cancer. We had not been sexually active in quite some time (more than a year). She went to the doctor and she diagnosed her with tri...

What do you think turned her off? Is there any way I can make this right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - I've been out of high school for a year and I had a huge crush on this girl. I never asked her out because she had a boyfriend for the first two years, she also flirts with everyone (how could I trust her) and I had low self confidence. The funny ...

Its difficult for me to "get out there." Anyone have any similar experiences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I guess I'm not really sure what I hope to accomplish with this. Partially just wanting to get it off my chest and partially hoping to find some good advice that I haven't seen elsewhere. I've searched the net a bit and haven't seen ...

Does a LDR have to be this difficult? Arranging a date is too much stress.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - My bf and I are dating long distance and it's extremely hard right now for me to get away to see him, even just for a few hours, because my parent's are really strict and I'm working with them every day. I mentioned two weeks ago that I was TRYI...

He is confusing me and being secretive. Do you think he truly cares for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Recently I have had cause to examine my relationship with my boyfriend, and I am left wondering if he truly cares about me. We are both in our mid twenties and have been together for almost two years. Though he is fairly secretive and the type to ...

Is it possible to escape the friend zone with her and rekindle her interest in dating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - I've been friend zoned by a girl who really liked me at first (as in, flirting, she initiated a date) and I blew it by waiting far too long to make my feelings known and make a move by telling her so. I understand exactly why I went wrong, and it's ...

He has trust issues. Do relationships work out better on the second try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - my bf broke up with me after 2 yrs because he had trust issues and would alwys have in his mind the 2 guys I had sex with yrs before him.. he always asked me how was the sex with the 2 other guys.. and also asking me did I like it better with...

Hopeless romantic...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - Ok. So here's whats going on with me. Sorry if this ends up getting too long. A bit of background as to why I even ask this question. Typically I am the one helping my friends with this sort of thing. I mean, I'm going into couples counseling, but I ...

Does my fiance fancy my daughter???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I don't know if I am crazy or not. Sometimes I just think I am paranoid due to my own past issues. Sometimes I think I should listen to my gut. I've been with my fiance for 5 years. We've lived together for 2 years. I sometimes feel that he has been ...

Why would she behave this way???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - I have always had trouble finding a lady friend but finally met someone through a friend at work. On our first date we went for a meal and it went realy well, so I asked if she would like to meet again and she said she would. On our second date we ...