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How do I get with him?

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Question - (29 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *exii_19 writes:

A few months ago i met this guy, and we became friends straight away, i knew straight away that i liked him as more than a friend but he was going out with someone at the time. But a few weeks after meeting him he split up with his girfriend.

It has been a few months since then and i really want to be with him but i am so rubbish at this kind of thing. He is always flirting with me but he makes me that nervous when he is with me i'm scared i'll make an idiot of myself. Over the past month everytime i see him he asks me for a kiss and me being me and not knowing what to do, just kissed him on the cheek, but the other day when i kissed him on the cheek he looked at me and said "no i mean a proper kiss", but i was so nervous so i quickly kissed him on the lips and gave him a hug and then went home.

I want to be with him so badly, the chemistry between us is so amazing. I really need your advice on this, please help!

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2011):

helpful girl agony auntokay if your that nervous maybe explaining to him on a text message or email how ever else you can do it with out explaining face to face i mean thats if you to nervous to explain face to face. im sure hell understand and then hell know to take it easy with you.x

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A female reader, Aunty Abzy United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2011):

Aunty Abzy agony auntIf he's flirting with you it must mean he wants too be with you or have fun with you in some sort of way. By him asking for a kiss this means he likes you and he wants too take things further. If he asks again go for it dont hessitate. If you do act nervous he'll be able too tell and he'll think you dont like him. just go with the flow and take things to another level.

But please be careful because if he is just out a relationship you could be just a 'thing' because he is single now and it could hurt your feeling .

Good luck x

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