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writes:Hello, I met a great guy last summer and then I went off to college. I had feelings for him but never mentioned a thing. This summer, we've been hanging out but never one on one..his friend is always around. He is mostly reserved, not shy. He talks a lot if you talk to him but for the most part keeps to himself. I'm generally outgoing but get really shy around him. Anyway, we're going off to different colleges this fall. Is it even worth the try? I enjoy his company and have a lot of fun with him when I'm not being extremely nervous. Also, the guys at my school are really lame. How should I tell him how I feel?
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reader, amzzie  +, writes (7 July 2011):
Me and my bf are both shy it kind off helps :)because you both understand you shy so can work thought shyness together. That what me and my bf do anyways
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys! i'm hoping to spend fourth of july with him and his family and friends!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2011): It is possible for two shy people to date. I am naturally very shy and my boyfriend is very shy as well. The thing is that when both people are shy, one has to find the courage to make the first move, in our case that person was me. If you really want to be with him, the best way is to tell him plainly and upfront that he is the one you want. It is extremely difficult to do this, but it can be done. Whether it is worth it to try, I think it is. My boyfriend and I lived in different countries when we met (he was on holiday here), and now he is moving here. It can work, if both people want it to, but it hard. Hope it helps. Best of luck.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (30 June 2011):
just relax around him a bit more i know thats easier said than done try getting some time alone together and see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbtw he and i have very similar taste in just about everything. I've never met anyone so similar to me...morally, politically, musically....etc...yet we're so different. it's awesome!
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