A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:FIVE MONTHS BCK!!!I met this guy on a house party arranged by my best friend and that first meeting with him was quite a thing to remember for the rest of my life!He was extremely courteous and chivalrous to me n my girlfriend till he got drunk... The moment he got dizzy, he started getting physical to me... tried to kiss me but I managed to put him back to his sense (one tight slap did the magic!).... The very next day, he called me up to apologize and claimed that he lost his sense and that’s why he misbehaved with me…. ever since then he's been trying hard to prove that he's a gentleman otherwise.... so this valentine's day, he asked me out for breakfast, took me to a plush restaurant and we ended up talking till evening.... then he dropped me back home as he had to meet his sister n asked me to join him for a drink by evening.... I met up with him again in the evening... He talked about himself, his family, his friends and his past relationships to me.... Later on, he invited me to his place.... he made me talk to his sister over the phone… he even prepared tea for me, made me feel extremely comfortable with him and then dropped me back home... The next day he called me up to say that he'd want to meet me again.... So, do you think this guy is for real? What could be his intention? Because I saw him at his worst the first time and at his best the last time and am confused now!NOW:Yes, I am still dating this guy and trying to know him better.....Unlike the first time, he never ever tried to touch me without my permission till date... even when once I got (purposely) sloshed and let him take care of me.... But now the situation is something like this..... He's in abroad and gives me a call once in 2 weeks or tries to come online and catch up with me.... He feels that I am emotionally guarded and at the same time pretentious too; and I feel he's trying strategically to get me emotionally vulnerable.... He intentionally dint contact me for a week and then calls me to say that "Wow! even after a week, I don't find the love lost".... Yes I like him but I want to take time before I convey that to him.... and he says he'd fly down to my place only if I accept that I'd be interested to meet him.... Well, I dint express it through words but he knows for sure that I like him and miss him too..... What do you recommend that I should consider thinking/doing before I take this relationship any further?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): Oh that statement was more for me than for him.... He meant to say that He dint find ma love for him lost even after a week's gap.... :)
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