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anonymous
writes:I was a shy girl in highschool; i had my small group of friends and never dated (I always used to, and still do, assume I'm not most guys "type"). Up until i was 17, i'd never even kissed a guy! Needless to say, I'm no good at reading the "signs" guys put off when they like girls.I tend to be guys' friend, never their girlfriend, and I hate it; recently i've met a guy and things seem to be different somehow... I just can't put my finger on it. an example of this is: we'll be with a group of people, watching a movie or the guys are showing off or something, he ALWAYS looks at me to see my reaction; this especially happens when he's goofing off (play fighting, telling a joke, etc). when we're goofing around (having a sock war, etc) he always targets me first. he'll show up at my friends house while i'm there; and lets say he has some sort of candy or something, he always offers me some before anyone else, and often times he won't even offer anyone else any, just me. recently, if i am sitting somewhere, he always takes the seat next to me. if i'm in the lazy boy, he's on the couch beside me. at BP, he takes the seat right next to me. Always close to me without every actually being "right beside me". I questioned one of his friends about the whole situation, and he completely ignored the topic... struck me as odd. There have been lots of situations where things were just off in some sense between us, but I don't know what it is. Having recently moved I have no good girl friends to talk to about any of this stuff, I've always gotten along better with guys. Anyone have any idea what's going on? AND, if he does like me, how do I let him know I am REALLY into him??Thanks in Advance, xo
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reader, shellyagal  +, writes (7 May 2010):
The days are gone when only guys used to make 1st move. Even you can go ahead and tell him that you like him and then see his reaction. Or if you want You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter search box. They only disclose your identity if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box:
crush:your email: email of crush 1 : email of crush 2 : email of crush 3
then click web search button. Let the magic of love makes all of you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): Be friends first, don't focus on the attraction. Have fun be yourself, relax and chill. Guys really like a nice cool girl friend!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): I think you should wait until he makes the first move.
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