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writes:Got a question I got a question I'm going on my first date on may 29thbasicly I'm going to take my date to a japenese steakhouse and see a movie possibly also to a amusment parkand I get my contacts next week and will buy a hollister outfit My plan will take her to these places but only thing What should I say like what conversations to I talk about?Should I make a move to kiss herhow should I acttell me any advice anything will help Reply to this Question
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (7 May 2010):
Sounds like you are over planning this date. A nice dinner, nothing too complex, someplace you can have fun w/o feeling funny. The steakhouse may be a very good choice as you're with other people and the cook entertains. Movie OK, you'll not be able to communicate with her... just sit in the dark and watch the movie. The amusement park seems a bit much.
What to talk about? Express interest in her, limit talking about yourself, unless she asks, then answer the questions but don't go on and on. Don't make the mistake of treating her like a guy, no jokes, no kidding her. Be respectful and show interest in learning about her.
Kiss? Keep an open mind, if you've connected with her, ask her if you can have a good night kiss- keep it simple, don't rush, don't push. If there's a next date (and hopefully there will be) you can expand if she's willing.
She has no obligation to kiss you, or even to allow you to kiss her. Some girls are going to be shy or not want to give up too much too soon. Most women respect a man who is willing to wait and treat them like a lady.
Relax, and have a good time. Be confident, women love that! but don't be stuck up or overly confident. Remember, practice makes perfect... first dates are seldom wonderful, mine was basically a disaster, but there was NO internet for me to ask these kinds of questions! Good luck and enjoy!
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