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writes:I am now in my 50s and recently was in contact with my first boyfriend back in my teens.He says he prefers not to look back/attend reunions and took 3 weeks to make contact. He asked me to marry him when we were both just under 18, I felt too young. I am divorced with an adult son and he never married. Asked me to keep in contact and that it was nice to hear my voice again. Should I be the one to make contact again or best to wait and see if he calls me?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 He is like a shooting star you see in the sky. It comes on a short while and then disappears forever.
What happened in the past is in the past and does not apply to the present anymore.
He was just being civil and nothing more. If he is interested, he would call you again.
It is tempting to replay that incident in your life but too much water has flowed under the bridge and he is not the same young fella.
Give him a week and if he does not call,you will know where he stands.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 I say call him if no romance comes from this than you two can be friends but don't wait to see if he calls.
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reader, kt1990 +, writes (8 May 2010):
 If you want to contact him, go for it, live for the moment you might live to regret not contacting him sooner , you jus never know! x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 May 2010):
To be honest, I think you've had your answer. I don't think he wants to look back. Don't try to make contact. See if he contacts you. If he really is interested, he will come back.
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