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female
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30-35,
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writes: Well I sorta have a problem.... I really like this guy. And he says he is attracted to Me just does not want a relation ship right now. But he wants to act the same way he has been. Like kissin and all that with Me.... Idk what I should do.? Keep waitin for somethin that might not even happen? Or just stop gettin attached and move on. Please help Me anyone feel free to give Me any tips or suggestions on this. :) thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): cut him off thats what guys who want friends with benefits will say.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (7 May 2010):
move on, he wants the best of both worlds, to be single but also to have someone there when he's feeling frisky. You deserve better and if you don't cut it off now then you'll get more attatched and you'll find it harder to stop your feelings increasing and separate from him
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reader, arie +, writes (7 May 2010):
if u are ready for a relationship and he is not then u have to tell him how u feel and if he still does not want a relationship i say play hard to get and start ignoring him for a while and see if things change and if he does not chase u, there is no point of u wasting your time
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reader, Accountable +, writes (7 May 2010):
If I were you I'd cut him off. At the moment he's getting all the benefits of a relationship without actually having to put in the work to maintain it - basically, (and I don't mean to be harsh, just honest) he's stringing you along because he likes the physical side but doesnt want to be with you.
Move on and find someone who appreciates everything you have to offer, and will give you everything you want in return :)
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