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writes:*OP's own title*I actually asked a question about the same guy about a week ago. But now, I'm singling out my main concern.Is he a womanizer?Yeah, yeah. I know, we've been through this. But not in great detail. I want/need to know before I fall hard for him. I don't want to end up getting hurt, so I need to know what you think.I, personally, don't think he is because he's too sweet. But then again, it's always the quiet ones... So, my friend was the one who set us up. But, now, she's saying such horrible things about him. Before she would say, "Oh he's so sweet. He thinks you're cute. I think he really likes you. You should hang out with him more. Did you kiss him yet??" But now it's more like this, "Just be careful around him. He cheated on his last 2 girlfriends. Don't fall for him. He chases alot of girls. Don't have sex with him. You can stay at his house... oh, wait, you don't want to do that. I think he slept around."Ok, what's the deal? One second she's all for the idea of me and him... and, now, she is trying to keep me away. I really do like this guy. Even though we're not dating... My friend thinks that it's because he doesn't WANT a relationship, he just wants sex.I'm starting to see that now, considering that he and I just make out, make dirty jokes, and he keeps hinting it on.But, the reason I think he's not all that bad is because I've never met a player that's so determined in the game! Although I don't give him "action" he still hangs around me. Usually after the first few refusals a player would just move on. But, he sticks around. He asks if I want to hang out, and we do have alot of fun picking on each other.We were actually hanging out in a group of friends and there was one girl there and the whole time they were talking. He didn't sound like he was flirting or anything, but he didn't really acknowledge me until it was time to go home. So, I dunno if he realized that I wasn't getting attention, or he cares.So what does this mean? Is he only after me because he can't get someone else? I should trust my friend, but, then, why would she set me up? She knows his ex... is this just a sad attempt to keep me away from him?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 May 2010):
If it is true that he has cheated on his last 2 girlfriends, and chases a lot of girls, avoid him. But you need to get a bigger picture of him as a person. Yo're listening to hear say from perhaps one or two people. You need to know more from others, and get to know him even more before you can make a decision. If it turns out that he has cheated and chases girls, then he's not worth the bother. But this could be a case of a jealous girl.
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