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writes:*OP's own title*Ok, theres this girl i liked for almost 2 years. I didnt know who she was frshman year but now i do from this year since she was in one of my clsses. What i didnt know that during the summer she got a boyfriend. So they been going out for a year somewhat a long realtionship for high school i guess.But a day or 2 days ago she got dumped. I wanted to text her but i mean what was the point if there will be about 20 others. So i didnt. I dont know if thats a good thing. But the other part is that i want to talk to her but i dont really know how anymore because it seems different then before when i did. Im not close friends either. I just talked when i got the chance or pulled out enough courrage to. Any advice in what i should do and say to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell im 16 and i don't want a sexual relationnship. That usually ends it pretty soon. She's also to good of a girl to do that anyways. I agree with the other stuff but how long should i wait to talk to her? I texted her today we got through a few text messages and i noticed she wasn't really into it. I ad a feeling she just wanted some alone time. So i texted, "If you dont feel up to texting right now i can talk to you later if you want" she then replied " Yah. Im really sorrt but i just feel like shit" and she's one of those people who never says anything bad. I expected that, as much as i liked she is single it kinda made me feel bad. I liked to see her happy but her boyfriend dumped her for no reason as i know of or anyone else does.But back to tthe text thing is that good or bad? I want to talk to her at school but i dint want to go when her friends are around, they kind of just stare you down(bitches... Cough... Cough...)any ideas. Thanks for an answer also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): You should try to become friends with her. The best relationships are friendships first! Spend time with her, listen to her. She probably needs to take time to sort out her feelings so do not pressure her to become sexual or committed. She may have some sort of rebound relationship - let it happen, you don't want to be the rebound guy! Ask her to go to movies, out for food, to hang out etc. Don't text her. Either talk to her in person at school or give her a call on the phone. Both are more personal, meaningful, and memorable. Be casual, but sweet.
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