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writes:me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a year now, and we are always arguing all the time and i don't know what to do. he feels like i get mad at him for everything he does but i'm not doing it on purpose. he says me getting mad at him all the time makes him feel like he is a bad person and i really do hate that. i feel like the things that i get mad about he should pay more attention to but he is just sick of me being mad period and he has this whole "i don't change for nobody attitude." so i don't know how to deal with this situation. everything use to be so good and i was so happy then it took a turn for the worse because i feel like he just does not care anymore. i know he loves me though because that is what is keeping this relationship going and no matter how mad we are at each other we can always manage to say I LOVE U and we have gone through some emotional rollercoasters. so i need some advice, how can i stop getting mad, do u think that i am being logical, heellppp i really wanna save my relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea thats how i feel and it sucks because i really want to make it work because i truely believe that god put me and him together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): My boyfriend and I have the same exact problem and I have no idea how to fix it. Our fights get so heated and very nasty with how we talk to each other. And the sad thing is they are over such stupid things but then grow into bigger things. It's so annoying. We love each other so much and have been together 2 years but we can't seem to stop arguing. So I know exactly how you feel. Do you ever feel like because you argue so much, you aren't sure if you are really meant to be with that person??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthat is what i do, he gets angry at the fact of me not tallking about things right aeway because i would rather collect my thoughts and think about what i want to say before we talk about it. but he is the kind of person that likes to talk about things right away whether he is mad or not so i dont know how to deal with this:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): You should never sweat the small stuff and let it go. Maybe you need to ask yourself why am I picking on him? Is this truly worth fighting over? When u feel the urge to vent maybe walk away do something else until you get over the need to argrue unless its absolutley relevant that you feel its a valid reason.
Good luck
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