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writes:Am i over reacting? or is this just generally how men/guys/lads are?i jsut dont understand i have a friend who appears to have feelings for me and i do him, i wont go into deatil but hes very shy and so am i, we havent had the best past and its got to the point that when we go out together we hardly talk however everyone is sure he likes me, many of them have said he likes me alot.Anyway i dont get this and maybe many guys do it but i dont know. one minute i can text him(for example letting him know what time to meet us or asking him to come out) and he will text back straight away, other times it'll be an hr or two, maybe 3 which im not bothered about other times it will be the fact that he doesnt.theres never any saying which he will do but he can say yea hes defo coming and then when i etxt him to tell him the time he doesnt reply, then when i etxt him again the next day he will reply. Ok he has said in the past that with anyone if hes busy at the time he wont reply and will leave it till he has time but then sometimes forgets. fair enough it happens. But is this normal? he does it to everyone its not just me i just wondered...do all guys do this?
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reader, bournedout  +, writes (8 May 2010):
Men are really like that. The frequency of his texting is not necessarily an indicator. We just don't communicate as much as women. Even after we are married (lol!) This is one of the many reasons women complain about us.
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reader, kt1990  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 I know a guy whu is like that too, and he is the first guy i have ever text who is like this. I just dont get it, it takes 2seconds to text some1 back. So then i think well i wont text him back and see how he likes it and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Just bring it up and tell him how annoying it is x
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reader, rainbowmaker +, writes (7 May 2010):
 one of my ex boyfriends used to do this to me all the time and it drove me nuts! It was like when i text him he would reply when he felt like it, sometimes not at all, yet when he text me i would always text back straight away. Sounds like the common case of treat em mean, keep em keen. I know! Its a bugger!Maybe he is busy, but the best thing for you to do is just ask him wether he likes you or not. Hell, i know this can be a scary ass thing to do but whats the worst he can say? No? Wow, not the end of the world is it?Bite the bullet, stop listening to everyone elses opinion on the situation and just ask him! Lol, get it over with and you will be out of your misery. Surely thats better than second guessing??? I wish i had someone to give me that advice when i was going through the same thing! All the best darling i wish you luck!
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