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writes:I've been divorced for over a year now. My former sister-in-law (who was married to my oldest brother) is also now divorced from my brother. We both divorced the same year. We've always gotten along really well. We live in different states, but I want to approach her to see what she'd think about us exploring a possible romantic relationship. Although my brother is divorced from her, I'm sure he wouldn't be happy if I asked her out next time I'm going to her state. My ex, who was good friends with her as well,probably wouldn't be happy either, although our divorce was amicable and she's very, very happy in her new life. Help? Advice?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 September 2009):
 Are your feelings for her worth losing a brother over?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): if you want to lose your brother well then just continue in this manner. sharing of siblings ex's is a NO NO. it destoys families and it messes up kids. this is not hollywood. it is life.
there are some lines that just shouldn't be crossed. having an affair with your ex sis in law is one of them. plenty of women out there, go find one of them and leave your brothers ex alone.........have you never heard of sloppy seconds concept.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 September 2009):
 Do you know who she and your brother divorced? Have you considered asking your brother how he would feel?
Honestly I kind of agree with AskOlderSister that there have to be other women out tere for you to date other then your brothers ex wife. But if it is soemthign you really want to do I would talk to your brother first and see.
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