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writes:Okay, this is kinda hard to explain, but I'll try.My girlfriend lived in the same town. I recently moved. It's been 2 days now. A best friend of mine, a guy, came over last night to her house, and she was in the bathroom straightening his hair, and he stood up, and they stood staring at each other, debating whether to kiss or not. I know this, because both told me.Now, the question is, should I have to deal with this? I mean, I've read numerous times that it is a GOOD thing to have your girlfriend draw the line with other people, that they just want to be friends...but why should that be? Obviously, if a line must be drawn in the first place, then somethings up, right? I hope that makes sense, that's my question. Why should anything have to be said, if they don't have something. She said "it sounded fun, but I could never cheat on you". He said "I don't want to cause trouble, I'm not out to cause heartache to anyone". Does this make sense? I don't get what I should do. I don't do this to her, I don't even have friends that are girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf they didn't kiss, if they had to tell each other that they shouldn't kiss, then they like each other. How come she only drew a line between him, what about my other guy friends? I asked another friend of mine, his girlfriend. I asked her "Would you ever do that", she said "I would never do that to my boyfriend, that's just wrong". I feel betrayed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): Just because you don't have friends that are girls shouldn't mean she is not allowed to have friends that are guys.
There was an instance when they could have kissed but they didn't. Those chose not to and in honesty both told you about it. So really what is the problem?
To me is sounds like your friend and girlfriend are good honest people and there is nothing to deal with because they didn't do anything.
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