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How do I initiate a conversation with someone I don't know, with the intent of a relationship?

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Question - (15 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2009)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a reasonably good looking guy, not being arrogant. I am clever, funny, Polite and have had a few girlfriends in the past.

This girl is absolutely stunning. And everything that I would like in a woman.How do I initiate a conversation with someone I don't know, with the intent of a relationship?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009):

Start a conversation with her in the same way you would with anyone else. Try not to go up to her with the intention in your mind of asking her out, or the aim of a relationship. This will just put pressure on you. And if you don't know this girl, I think that to just ask her out might be a bit too forward, too much too soon.

So just chat to her about something mundane, something casual. That's how you get talking to anyone, and how you can start to get to know them. Things might juts progress naturally from there. Good luck. x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009):

Original poster here. I meant to say 15-18 as my age.

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A male reader, bouncer Ireland +, writes (15 September 2009):

Just open your mouth and talk simple as that

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