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anonymous
writes:I think I love this girl who has a boyfriend.What should I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): There really isn't enough information to go on, but I'll do my best to respond.
The only thing I can suggest is that you get to know this girl. Talk to her in a friendly way. If she seems interested in you (in more than a friendly way, I mean), then mention that you know she has a boyfriend. If she isn't happy in her current relationship, she will probably say so. But I would advise against dating her while she is with her boyfriend, as the situation will quickly get messy. It wouldn't be very nice on her boyfriend either.
However, if she doesn't seem interested at all, then as difficult as it may be, you will have to try and accept that.
Either way, this situation doesn't sound very promising. I guess it depends on what her relationship with her current boyfriend is like. But I don't suggest trying to split them up or anything, or getting involved if it is clear she is not interested. I think we have all, at some point, loved someone who wasn't available. The only thing you can do is accept that, and try to move on, knowing that you will very likely meet and love someone else in the future, someone who will be available. Good luck. x
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reader, mzredbone +, writes (15 September 2009):
Please do not pursue this girl,because in reality,if you do,what if you two get together somehow,she just might do the same thing that she did to last guy to you,and that would totally be a diaster waiting to happen
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