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writes:Theres this girl that i hang out with and shes 18. We spend a ton of time together and ive fallen in love. But im 16 and that could be a problem. Also just recently she got a Bf they were kissing the very first day. That night i told her how i truly felt about her through text message after seeing them together. She told me she wasnt weirded out and that she really likes him. I was truly heartbroken and still am. This all happened last night and i dont know what to do. I am in an black hole of emotional distress. Can anyone tell me how to win her heart. im also her neighboor. God didnt help me can any of you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Give her up. She is an adult; you are a minor. She has stated that she liked the guy. Did she ever give you cause to believe that she is interested in you as anything more than a friend?Email me to clarify above, and I will answer.
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reader, chinchou567 +, writes (15 September 2009):
chinchou567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat i meant by weirded out is that she wasnt weirded out by what i said. i truly love her and i know now what true heartbreak feels like
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reader, Illithid +, writes (15 September 2009):
 All I can say is that God knows who will make you happiest in the long run, not just today. He knows that maybe this girl would make you happy for now, maybe even for a while, but that ultimately you would be hurt. She could divorce you, or leave you at the alter, or cheat on you and leave you broken.
If you're willing to trust Him (and it seems He was your first one to ask for help), then you have to trust that He's wiser than any of us, and knows that sometimes patience is necessary to meet the spouse he has prepared for you.
And please know, this is coming from a guy that just lost his fiancée less than a month ago, so I feel you. I wanted her, proposed to her, gave her the ring. We were planning our wedding, then she left me. But I'm trusting God that He knows someone for me that WON'T leave me like that, someone that will stick with me. I thought I knew who I needed, but I was wrong. Only God knows.
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