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writes:Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 months. We're 2 school years apart but I'm 20 and she is 17, but the age difference never shows and I'm very happy in the relationship. More recently though, she has been going into moods more frequently and its starting to get annoying as she doesnt have any valid reasons for them!She also uses excuses ALL the time, saying either she wasnt in a mood but by asking her I have now put her in a mood, or that 'its just her, and i chose to go out with her'. She never used to be as moody but recently its quite bad.I'm in uni and she lives at home so I dont see her for a week or 2 at a time - and she sometimes says its because she misses me, but that isnt fair on me! I miss her but i don't get arsey all the time?So yesterday she went into one of her moods and I'd had enough, so I was a bit off with her (only a bit though) and this morning she's furious that I was moody! WHAT?! For like the first time in ever I was in a mood and she's angry at me! She does it alllll the time and I really dont know if I can handle it anymore!Help please....
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reader, confusedboy.com +, writes (8 March 2009):
confusedboy.com is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help guys (and gals!)
She's not pregnant, I know that so at least thats ruled out :]]
Maybe it is just her age..I just dont want it to affect us!
I'll try and be more understanding!
Thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): It's her age and hormones. God I used to be a really stressy when I was around that age but it got better in time as I grew up. I'm 19 now and much better and more relaxed, I really believe she'll grow out of it but if she dosen't, it may just be how she is as a person. It's up too you, to work out
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (8 March 2009):
 At 17 girls have lots of hormones going around their body giving them mood swings. Be paitient and give her little compliments, it will make her feel better about herself as she is probs going through a stressfull time at the moment.
When you are with her make sure you tell her how much she means to you. If she feels insucre her moods will be worse.
If she has a go at you for no reason just wait until she has finished then say something completely different like "Your hair looks nice" or " i love you". Don't react to when she has a go, it will give her a reson to carry on the argument.
Good luck
Livia
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reader, confusedboy.com +, writes (8 March 2009):
confusedboy.com is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlthough the moods annoy me, its the fact that she blames me or makes excuses and NEVER admits to them! Really makes me not want to bother! :(
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Going from seeing each other all the time to a long distance relationship can have a very negative affect on people.
Also has she recently gone on the pill or changed her pill? Hormones can be another cause of mood swings.
Maybe it's time to break up with her and find a girl at uni, they tend to understand the pressures of higher education and being away from home a bit more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): it could be hormones? Im a guy, and even ive been moody alot lately for apparently no reason lol...
Or it could be her period, though i doubt shed be getting it that frquently
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