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writes:I am a 21 year old girl and my boyfriend is 24. For the last few years I have masturbated almost daily and when I got into this relationship my sex drive has remained really high and my boyfriend comments on it a lot. He never complains in the moment of course... but in other conversations he says it's like it's a bad thing. From what he says he only masturbated twice a week and now he doesn't really need to... I never thought I'd have a boyfriend that told me my sex drive was too high... What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your thoughts, hopefully we can talk about it this weekend.
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reader, dddddddd  +, writes (9 March 2009):
Yes it does sound like you have a high sex drive but it also sounds like your boyfriend has a low one. He might be feeling inadequate because he isn't a match for you.
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reader, strawberries  +, writes (9 March 2009):
Sex drive does vary from one person to another. Generally it's considered to be higher in guys however this is not always the case. From the sounds of it if you masturbate everyday you probably do have a very high sex drive for a girl. At a guess (based on how I would feel) I would say your boyfriend is worried. There is obviously a limit to the number of times a guy can masturbate which is basically not true for girls. This is based on age, fitness, diet and numerous other factors. Your boyfriend is possibly worried that he won't be able to satisfy you sexually, which will lead to you breaking up. He may also be embarassed that he can't keep up with you.I'd recommend you talk to him about it and try to see why it bothers him. In general most confident guys would be extremely happy with a girlfriend with a high sex drive. Good Luck
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