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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have known this guy (23) for over a month through my friend. At first, I didnt really notice him too much and kissed his roomate (while drunk). I found out the roomate is a player so I just forgot about him and started talking to the other guy. My friend told me that he is looking for a girlfriend and he actually respects women. I also heard that while he is outgoing, he is a little shy when it comes to asking girls out and he is used to girls chasing him. I have gone over to their house a lot and everytime, I would make small talk with the guy but when we were both drinking, we would get into deep conversations and find out a lot about each other. Last night, we finally kissed and he wanted to have sex but I said "Im not that kind of girl" and he said "I know youre not but you cant blame a guy for trying because you're sexy as hell." I told him I liked him and asked how he felt about me and he said that I was "very cool." I said that I dont have sex without a commitment and asked him if he wanted to go slow and try dating and he said "I dont know, we'll see." A few weeks ago I saw him kissing his friend while drunk but I know that is all they did and I told him about kissing his roomate and told him that we were even now. He was a gentleman and walked me home. He asked for my number and I told him to call me tomorrow and he said "I just might do that" but still hasn't and he is going clubbing with the boys tonight. I dont know how he feels about me. I mean obviously he is willing to have sex with me but does he want to date me? Should I be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): think he has you standing in front of ready to give him your all and he is not interested.
think you are better off just finding someone else.
if you want to give it one try just tell him. But i don't think you will get what you want. something in the story spells trouble. i suspect he would shag and run.
Hugs Star.x.
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