A
female
age
41-50,
*ionam
writes:Hi really need advice, started seeing this guy in August, it started not serious but then when it started to get serious he started to pull away and in January finished it.. I never contacted him but in about a week he was texting to see how I was then admitted he missed me and that he just at the time didn't know what he wants, he is in his 30's and never had a long term relationship!!!!! We got back together then after a month he ended it again saying it wasn't fair on me. Again I never contacted him and he got in touch with me after saying he wouldn't. We had a great day together but I'm just worried about going back, even he admits we connect on every level and it's only when I'm not there he realises how he misses me. I'm so confused, I would never let him see me cry but he really hurt me after I let him in again, so scared to do it again. Should I trust him again?
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reader, 90210 +, writes (8 March 2009):
Hi ,
I understand where you are coming from!
I went through that infact i have done for nearly two years with this one guy.
Basically, i came to the conclusion that they want what they cant have.
When you where together he loved it and was happy until he realised he has you and there is no chase anymore. When he finished it n you never contacted that chase was back and he had something to work for if you get me?
So everytime you split and you dont contact he is the first to text you as he is wondering why you havent contacted him.
Its a tricky one to trust him, i dont think he is doing it to hurt you or anything. Its just the way he is really.
Ither talk to him about it or just walk away.
Hope i could help :-)
xx
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