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writes:Hi, im 15 ad my gf is 14, shes always so self conscious abt her weight ( shes a tad bit chunky, not even) and abt how pretty she is(beautiful btw) but everytime i tell her tht i think she's perfect, it seems as though she doesnt care abt my opinion, i try to make her feel special, but sometimes it doesnt work, please help, what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, salvadda  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 I can tell u love this girl very much. Don't take it personally. I can tell that it hurts u when she doesn't accept ur feelings for her. Your a very caring person to come in here ask for advice it means u want to try to do something that will help her to take u seriously. She is very lucky to have someone like u to care about her enough to ask for advice.
I am *a tad bit chunky* also *s*. I can tell u from my point of view that I too sometimes have a hard time exceting my hubby's opinion *feelings* of how he feels about me also. Sometimes I see myself not as pretty as other girls. Sometimes I wonder why my hubby is with me. We *girls* sometimes all feel that way. It also passes when we hear the lovely words such as u tell ur g/f. I am sure that she knows how special she is to you. Don't take it to heart and get down on urself. Remember girls are funny...*s*
I might suggest if u like that maybe u can get/do something for her to help her take u seriously. You can get her a lovely card telling her how u feel. You can even write her a letter telling her all the ways she is speical to you. Telling her how happy u r to have her, and letting her know u care for her. This might give her something to look upon when she needs to be reminded of you and how u feel for her. I think she would like a letter like this.
Hope it works out for u and her. Just remember don't let it get u down....good luck and take care
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reader, inlove954 +, writes (8 March 2009):
dont worry. its not as if its your fault or anything. every girl will feel insecure and unpretty at times. reasure her that shes fine the way she is. and if that doesnt work then she just isnt confident. perhaps something in her past has made her feel this way. just let her know you love her the way she is and doesnt need to change at all. good luck :)
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