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writes:hi met someone and we went out. everything was going well said he would take me out last night for a meal etc. Been in touch during week and he was talking bout coming to my sisters wedding etc. Lost my phone on sat night and my mate texted him to let him know what had happened. He got a taxi straight over to pick me up but thought i would be staying at his. He said that i should know that he likes me and he wasnt used to someone liking him. He said that he had missed me and my cuddles etc. Was begging me to stay at his and was trying to talk me into staying at his next night. Went home as thought things were going a bit too fast and getting bit heavy. He sent me a message next day saying that only been out once and things were going too fast and getting too heavy so wouldnt be going out that night. However he would ring or text me next week.When i text him he said just wants to be single etc but maybe in a bit could have a relationship and that we're still friends etc. Totally confused as said to him that that i thought we were having fun and a laugh and didnt think were in relationship and he was one taking things too fast.Does he really like me or is he messing me around?Text me last night to see whether i was out in town and when said y why? He said it doesnt matter and to have a good night. Think he was out with another woman so dont understand why he didnt just say as not an item and dont own each other. So i said that glad we were mates and neitha of us wanted serious relationship and that was out on date so hope wouldnt be awkward if saw each other and to enjoy himeself. Then later on i texted him and told him not to text me this week as prob be out and that i would text him sometme. Does that all sound cool or have i made a prat of myself? Do you think that'll make him jealous?Any advice or thoughts would be great as i am totally confused
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (8 March 2009):
 He's messing with you and you seem like your messing him around abit too! Just leave him alone and let him sort himself out for the time being! Move along and find someone who is not going to be an idiot, and someone who is not going to play childish games! X
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