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I like my ex and another guy

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Question - (22 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *oname00 writes:

Okay so i'm in a bad situation.

My boyfriend and i broke up almost two weeks ago because he told me he lost feelings for me. We had sex, so i'm still sort of clung to him. Let's name him Jim.

There's another guy who is so sweet, he's absolutely perfect. He's more caring and affectionate than my ex is. Let's name him Kyle.

But last night i was at a party with both of them, and my Jim started talking to me after not speaking with me for a week or so.

I asked him if he missed me and he said yes and he told me he still has some feelings for me.

He also told me he doesn't want to date right now, but he could see us dating in the future. He seemed confident about it too.

I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of hurting Kyle because i still want Jim back. I thought i didn't want Jim back as a boyfriend, just as a friend. but after seeing him, i want like him again.

I need a little help, so please leave comments ):

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A female reader, noname00 United States +, writes (24 August 2009):

noname00 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ahh well it's all good now.

kyle told me that he still likes his ex girlfriend.

so i feel a bit better (:

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009):

u should not go for kyle because u still like jim and kyle is gonna get really hurt if he does like u and ur gonna feel guilty about it so u should just wait until u really get over jim or find someone that u really do like

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