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writes:so me and my boyfriend have been together sence highschool and lately evry now and then he gets to thinking that hes missing something becuse hes been with the same person for so long. and that he will never get to experance the college life. he tells me he feals like hes been tied down and never got to be a kid. for the last 6 months or so this has caused him to break up with me every few months. we never stay broke up long, he normaly blows up my phone an hour later and if i dont answer he will show up at my door. it allways ends the same way he holds me and tells me hes stupid and that being with me is all he wants. but it is starting to take its tole on me. it is hard for me to put anything into our relasionship becuse i feel like it will just end in a few days anyway. i do understand what he feals like. i get the same fealings but to me he is more inportant. so my question is is there anyway to make hime get over this feeling? or feel outher wise? is breaking up the best fix?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni want to say thank you to all those who helped me. i brook up with him today. i cant hurt from his actions anymore its not fair to eather one of us to be stuch in a relasionship that is a constant burden. pluse if im going to hurt it might as well be to get over him not his actions. thanks again
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reader, Reghan  +, writes (22 August 2009):
Don't let him manipulate your heart. He only keeps breaking up with you because you keep giving him the opportunity to do it whenever you take him back. It's not good for you to go through this, it's not good for either your heart or your mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): He wants another girl. When two people are together for so long they become attached. They share so many things that when something is done that reminds them of the other, it brings back memories. These memories unlock emotions and when that person is alone, they make them crave the other.When two people are together again due to the memories that are brought back, these memories are pushed to the back of the brain and forgotten for the momen. The person then thinks... what if I was with someone else would it be better? Then the cycle repeats itself.I think thats where the old expression comes from... "Women, can't live with them, can't live without them" It could be applied to men too of course.
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