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writes:Okay there is a lot of little things I could say about this but I think I can keep it very brief. My ex gf is spreading rumors about me. I was 100% loyal to her although she was not to me. She is now with a guy who I know is not loyal to her. However somehow she finds it necessary to tell people that I am a cheater even though I am the last person who someone would think of as a womanizer. Im very upset over this shes very good at manipulating people including my own friends. I need help on how to handle this...
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (22 August 2009):
 Haters are going to hate and lie on you no matter what. Just laugh it off, roll your eyes, and keep on living your life.
Good luck.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 Laugh. Really loud at shake you head in disbelief whenever the rumor surfaces its ugly head in your presence. Sometimes, defending yourself against a false accusation only serves to validate it somehow and give it far more credit than it deserves. If YOU know she is manipulative, I'm sure a lot of other people will figure it out too. Karma has a way of biting people like this in the butt. Rise above it all, Laugh, and walk away with your dignity intact.
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reader, Beautyandbiscuits  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 lots of different answers to this but i think the main one is to jus ignore it. make your point clear once ur not a cheater and she has no proof of you cheatin so that any future relationships will not have that doubt that you'll cheat on them in it. also if u ever get approched about ti just say you never cheated on her. Dont sink to her level though and get involved in the rumor of her new bf cheating as that will degrade you and that will be a bad thing to happen and will lessen your creditibility(ad spelling!) xxx
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