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*acey
writes:What does he want?Recently i met a gut out at a club and we were dancing a bit and kissed. I saw him out a few weeks later and he asked me for my number and we started going on little dates, like to the movies and stuff and we would kiss but that was it. A friend of mine found out that he had a girlfriend and he hadnt told me. I questioned him about it and he told me that he was only staying with her until he got back from a holiday that they had planned together which was in the next few weeks.When he got back he broke up with her like he said and we planned a couple of times to hang but it didnt work out. i decided he musnt be interested and didnt contact him.about 3 or 4 weeks later i commented on his facebook status saying 'ner ner' about something and we started talking again and he msgd me and asked me to hang again.we went out for dinner and then went back to his house and i slept with him and we watched movies. he dropped me home the next morning and everything was all sweet. Now its almost 3 days later and he hasnt messaged me.do i message him??was he just using me??or is he thinking im not interested because i dont message him??I'm so confused!!
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reader, Jacey +, writes (23 August 2009):
Jacey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for help guys
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reader, Jacey +, writes (23 August 2009):
Jacey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionahh yes this is my dilemma!to text or not to text.there is nothing to lose really, if he doesn't reply then I guess he's not interested and at least I know but I have my pridewhat if he does reply and it becomes a sex based thingI recently heard the saying 'no man wants to buy the whole ice cream truck if you're giving out the popsicles for free'. I think this is very true now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): The world is full of time wasting users, and to be honest i wouldn't bother wasting anymore time or energy on these sort of people!!!
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reader, Goiwan  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 You are not confused!!!! Okay here's the confirmation that you already know that you want to be told..... You moved too fast with the bloke.... why? because you wondering if he used you.... He probably did. He will come back when he needs to quench himself...........will you have him back??????? DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): I dont see a problem with you messaging him, just ask how he is and what he's been up to
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