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I'm not as talkative and social as he wants me to be. What do I do?

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Question - (22 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay, so me and my bf have been dating for now almost 4 months and he's a really social person. Flirts and talks with whomever. Im not. I honestly could care less about talking to people. I would much rather just sit there and read or something. It bugs him that I don't talk much and he thinks I ignore him when he's talking to someone and I don't wanna chime in. It's just not me. What do i do?

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A female reader, PPrincess_89 United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2009):

PPrincess_89 agony auntjust be yourself 100% but try perhaps adding in a line or 2 and getting in the flow of the convo. I know what it feels like to be stumped for words or just wanting to keep out of things, but if you open up more socially, your network of friends will grow and more fun times will be had. Dont be someone youre not, but you can miss out on a lot if you want to be the loner and not the socialite! :)

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