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writes:How do i get girls to like me? i need some tips and tricks. im 16 year old and alot of the time get on with girls but when i ask them to go out or meet up or do they like me more than a friend they say no they just want to be friends...Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Beautyandbiscuits  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 To male annoymous, that is utter shit! im 16 year old girl and if someone did that to me they'd get a slap round the face so i dont recommend doing itthe truth is there really is no answer to this question cus different things work on different girls and sometimes being friends is better than dating. If they dont like you for who you are then its their problem because changing yourself will only lead to problems in the future.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Dont do what would work on you. Don't do what you think would work on girls. Don't even do what they tell you they want in a BF.
DO WHAT ACTUALLY DOES WORK ON THEM. DO NOT ASSUME THAT GIRLS ARE GOING TO ACT RATIONALLY ABOUT THIS STUFF AT ALL. THEY USUALLY WON'T.
You see other guys with girls, what are they doing? Probably being a lot less nice to them than you are, for one thing. Probably being perfectly willing to screw them, but being indifferent about "needing" them. Probably letting the girls want them more than they want the girls.
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reader, Six_Floors_Left  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 Ive been following the work of many men that are learning the real ways to get girls to like you and if theres anything ive learned is that its all about first impressions. If you like a girl then you want to aproach her like your interested in being with her as more than a friend. There are litteraly millions of tips and tricks that are effective (when used togather) to get girls to like you. To sum it all up in this answer id say that you dont want to act needing, clingy, or overly polite. If you see a girl you like just start by saying hey. most guys back out and end up just staring at her as she walks by but you dont sound like the kind of guy that will have much a problem with this. After that you want to use a line. make sure its something completely original tho, not something that you got out of a move or and old tv show. Ask her for her opinion on something, girls like to give their female opinions. From their its best to tease her a little bit. Make her acuse you of being mean but in a way where she still has a smile on her face. The key to getting into a relationship with a girl is to get her phone number. This is off a really helpfull website...
"The best way of getting her number is to say "Hey, what are you doing just now? I have to go to get a few things...you can keep me company if you'll be nice" or "Hey, what are you doing tomorrow? I have to go do X, you can keep me company if you like". Then you take out your cell-phone, hand it over to her and say "Here...let's trade number anyway. Type it into my cell..."
Once you have her number just leave. If you stay too long then you'll seem like you want to be just friends. Just leave. Call her later or the next day and see if shes still up for hanging out. If she has your number she might even call you first.
Ok well i could go on for hours with tips and tricks but these are some of the most important. Let me no if u want to know any more.
~SFL
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): There is no answer to this question really. You just gotta be urself. sometimes if you've been friends with someone for a while they go into just friends category so if u maybe being friends with them first isnt all its cracked up to be! just be confident and shower alot and ull be fine lol! Im a 16 year old girl n i luk for a guy that has confidence but isnt cocky, funny, can be serious, and caring. hope this helps x
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